Todd Richard Graham
December 11, 2023
It is with great sadness that the family of Todd Richard Graham announces his passing on Monday, December 11, 2023 in his 64th year at Kingston General Hospital.
Together for over 40 years, beloved husband of Jayne; proud and loving “Paj” of Emily and Amanda, as well as his Golden Rescue, Mitts. Treasured brother of Troy Marshall (David) and dear uncle of John, Nicholas and Kathleen (Tom). Much loved by his many aunts, uncles, and cousins of the Steel and Graham families. Todd is predeceased by his father, Thomas Graham (2009) and mother, Kathleen (2013).
A “Bluenoser” at heart, Todd was born and raised in Halifax until the family moved to London in 1972 upon his dad’s retirement from the Navy. Todd made fast friends and loved to recount many stories of his glory days at CCH with great buddies and football. Football continued in university with the Western Mustangs and Todd was proud to show off his 1979 Yates Cup ring. Todd was well known amongst the patrons of the infamous “Ceeps” as a bouncer. It was also where he met his wife, Jayne. Their first date was football themed, happening on Grey Cup Sunday in 1983. They would become engaged in the stands of the 1988 Grey Cup in Ottawa, and married a year later in London.
Todd’s greatest pride was his two beautiful daughters, Emily and Amanda. He would talk about them and their accomplishments to anyone who would listen. He bonded with the girls over his love of music, sports, history, and politics. An animal lover, Todd often joked about needing more testosterone in the house and that’s where golden retrievers Foster, Watson and now Mitts came to join the household.
Lieutenant Graham was a 1st Hussar for over 40 years and a stalwart member of the Association and Museum Committee. He was looking forward to the regiment’s trip to Holland, Belgium and France in April.
Todd was well respected during his long career with General Motors and General Dynamics, which provided him with many opportunities to travel the world; to Belgium, Singapore, Washington DC, and Dubai, to name a few.
Upon retirement, Todd and Jayne moved to the Thousand Islands and spent many hours on the water enjoying their boat, the Ship of Fools, and welcoming aboard numerous visitors. They truly loved the retirement life, and being on their own schedules. Todd served proudly as an OPP Auxiliary officer, both on the road and with the marine unit. He also enjoyed participating in role plays with the School of Military Intelligence at CFB Kingston.
Todd believed giving back to your community was your duty as a good citizen and volunteered his time and efforts to many organizations over the years, such as Knights of Columbus. Todd was a principled man with a deep-seated commitment to fairness and navigated life with professionalism, honesty, integrity, and respect. He will also be remembered for his humour and quick wit.
Cremation has taken place. Visitation will be held at Westview Funeral Chapel, 709 Wonderland Road North on Friday, December 15, 2023 from 2:00 – 4:00 p.m. and 7:00 – 9:00 p.m. Funeral Mass will be celebrated at St. Michael’s Parish, 511 Cheapside Street, London on Saturday, December 16, 2023 at 11:00 a.m. To view the livestream of the Mass, please click here:
Inurnment to take place at the National Military Cemetery of the Canadian Armed Forces in Ottawa in the spring.
In memory of Todd, donations may be made to 1st Hussars Cavalry Fund or Golden Rescue.
“Hodie non cras” (Today, not Tomorrow)
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Jayne Thoughts and prayers are with you . So very sorry for your loss. ❤❤❤❤❤ Mary
Jayne, I’m so sorry to hear this sad news. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Jayne and family. We just heard about Todd yesterday and we are so sorry for your loss. I was so proud of his and he will be sadly missed by those that knew him. Our hearts go out to you and the girls. We will be thinking of you today. God bless and may Todd rest in peace together again with mom and dad.
We were all with you during the live stream from the church - keeping you all in our thoughts. We have made a donation in Todd’s memory to Golden Rescue. Love from all your family in Regina
It seems like only yesterday that Todd and I were allowed to turn Grannie's kitchen table into a fort. She had such a lot of patience for her grandchildren and I think about those times around her kitchen and the flat on Almon Street often. To all my cousins, this is a sad day for us but I look forward to better.
Jayne and family, I'm so sorry for your loss. I only met Todd a few times, but he seemed so full of life and good humour. What a great story teller! My thoughts and Maureen's are with you.
A donation has been made to Golden Rescue.
Dear Jayne and family, we are so sorry to hear of the loss of Todd. He really was one of a kind, as reflected in his tribute, and will be greatly missed. You are all in our thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time.
Jayne and Amanda and Emily and Troy, We were so sorry to hear about Todd's passing. He was such a lovely and friendly man. We enjoyed our conversations with him over the years when he would visit his parents' house on Killarney Crt. We also remember how happy he was to retire and move to the Kingston and Thousand Islands area. Please know that we think of all of you during this very difficult time and you are in our prayers.
Jayne and family. We were so saddened to hear of the passing of Todd. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this time.
Dear Jayne…I am deeply saddened to read of Todd’s passing…what a character! Although it’s been many years since we have connected, we shared so much laughter, good food and our mutual love of “goldens”! With love to you and the girls, Susan
Sending our love, hugs and deepest sympathies to you and the girls. We have been truly blessed with all of the Graham Family in our lives and are thankful for every memory. Todd was a gentle giant with unlimited witt and stories… going to miss the banter and back yard evenings. Love you all.
Dear Jayne: Please accept our sincerest condolences on your recent loss of Todd. It is a most difficult time for you and your family. Diane and I are thinking of you, praying for you, and sending you the best we can the energies of peace and strength. May you find at least some comfort in knowing that. Blessings, my friend. Gary
On behalf of the Grenville County OPP Detachment, passing on our deepest condolences to the Graham family. RIP Todd
Dear Jayne and Family. I am tremendously saddened by Todd's early death. He was a kind and generous man with a great sense of humour. I offer my sincere condolences to you and all, who will miss him greatly.
A donation has been made to 1st Hussars Cavalry Fund. Message from the donator: In memory of our friend, Todd
Jayne, Emily and Amanda, our deepest heartfelt sympathies for your loss. We will always treasure the times we've shared and will always hold a special place in our hearts for Todd.
Such a beautiful tribute to a life well-lived, and loved. Our deepest condolences.
So sorry for your loss my thoughts & prayers are with at this sad time. Rest in Peace Todd.
Jayne & family, So sad to hear about Todd. He was a big part of the GD/ GM family for a long time. He should have had just as long to enjoy retirement. Thoughts are with you and the family. Deepest condolences, Steph and Craig Bryson
A donation has been made to Golden Rescue. Message from the donator: Jayne, Emily and Amanda, We are truly very sorry for your loss and thinking of you at this difficult time. Hoping that the love and memories can help in your healing over time. John and Wendy Healey
Dear Jayne, Emily and Amanda, it has been years since I saw Todd, but as everyone here has attested to - he was kind, caring, fun, friendly, sincere, thoughtful... I could go on. He was a dear friend to my late husband, Tony Lombardi. They had so many adventures in high school - some of them not to be retold! - but I know their friendship was true. I recall Todd reaching out when Tony was ill and that was so in keeping with his character. I know your loss is great - but his legacy of love and devotion to family will, I hope, bring you comfort. I believe that Tony was waiting for him with a laugh and a gag and a few football tales too. For our family, December 11th has always been known as "Dove Day", and I hope your family can see the significance of having your own Dove Day on the 11th. It won't change things, but I hope it gives you some peace now and always, and that your cherished memories hold you close to him always. Sincerely, Joanne
A donation has been made to Golden Rescue. Message from the donator: Jayne, Emily and Amanda. So sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts at this very difficult time. Luanne & Jeff Owen
My most heartfelt condolences to Jane and children. How very sad. I knew Todd in high-school and only have the fondest of memories. May you find peace during this very sad time for you. God Bless😊❣️
I was saddened to hear this, my condolences to the family. Todd was a genuine soul to all those who knew him. He always stopped to say hi and he was always ready to help out where he could. Rest in peace Todd.
My condolences to the family. Todd was a genuine soul to all those who knew him. He always stopped to say hi and he was always ready to help out where he could. Rest in peace Todd.
Todd was a friend and former work mate at London Diesel who will be truely missed but not forgotten. To you Jayne and all of the family our heartfelt condolences.
I’m so sorry to read this news today. While I haven’t seen Todd in a number of years we worked together at GM-GD. I was the on-site travel agent and Todd worked in the Transportation dept. We had many laughs! My condolences to Jayne, Emily and Amanda.
Jane , Emily and Amanda our thoughts are with you at such a difficult time. Todd was a one of a kind person. His sense of humour and dedication to service spoke to his strength of character. Todd left us far too soon and will be greatly missed by his friends and associates in the Kingston area. RIP
A donation has been made to Golden Rescue. Message from the donator: Jayne, Emily and Amanda. So sorry to hear of Todd’s passing. Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time. Jeff & Kelly
Rest in Peace Todd❤️ Jayne, Emily and Amanda cherish the memories, he was a great man and will be missed by all who knew him. Sending love and prayers❤️
Godspeed my friend, you will be truly missed. Thank you for the comradeship and a lifetime of memories.
We send our sincere condolences to the Graham family during your time of grief and loss, Todd will be missed in the neighborhood.
Dear Jayne, I was so sorry to hear that Todd has passed away. It’s been many years but I wanted you to know I have fond memories of the two of you and I’m sending my deepest sympathies to you and your family. Janet (Ferguson) Turner
Jayne, Our thoughts are with you and your daughters at such a difficult and shocking time. Know that others like us have you in their minds and hearts.
Todd Graham was great guy with a lovely sense of humour. We were fellow officers together with the 1st Hussars. I will always remember his cheerfulness and his bonhomie. He believed in service and was the epitome of a Canadian citizen - he gave so much more than he received. He was a real 1st Hussar. He will be missed so much. Barbara and I are so sorry for his loss and wish to express our deepest condolences to Jayne, his family and friends
Todd, I’m totally devastated at your passing. You were a true brother. I enjoyed our many visits together while at GM - GD. I also enjoyed the christmas open houses you and Jane had in Bur. Jane we are so sorry for your loss. Our condolences to you and the girls.
A donation has been made to Golden Rescue. Message from the donator: My deepest condolences to Jayne, Amanda and Emily. You are all in my thoughts during this difficult time. Margot
A donation has been made to Golden Rescue. Message from the donator: Jayne, Emily and Amanda, our thoughts and hearts are with you. We will all miss Todd tremendously. He was a wonderful man and great asset to our community. xo Lisa, David and Family.
Jayne . So sorry to hear of Todd's passing . Our thoughts are with you and the girls . Mike
Jayne, we are so sorry for your loss, Todd will be surely be missed! Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family!
Jayne ,our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time
Sending my deepest condolences to Jayne and the family. Thought's and Prayers. Big Hugs.
A donation has been made to Golden Rescue. Message from the donator: We are heartbroken. Such a sweet gentle man. Our love to Jayne, Mitts and the girls
There are no words to express our deepest condolences. Such great memories we had and were hoping for many more. Our love to Jayne, the girls and family.
Services for Todd Richard Graham
Visitation will be held at:
Westview Funeral Chapel
709 Wonderland Road North,
London, Ontario
December 15, 2023 2:00 pm to 4:00 pm
Visitation will be held at:
Westview Funeral Chapel
709 Wonderland Road North,
London, Ontario
December 15, 2023 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm
Funeral Mass will be held at:
St. Michael's Church
511 Cheapside Street,
London, Ontario
December 16, 2023 11:00 am
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A donation has been made to Golden Rescue. Message from the donator: My heartfelt condolences. Deeply sorry to hear about Todd's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you especially during this Christmas season.
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