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Pam Graham

April 30, 2014

Peacefully at home with family by her side on Wednesday, April 30, 2014, Pam passed away after a courageous battle with cancer. Predeceased by her parents Peter and Audrey Waller (Steele). Loving mother of Melissa O’Donnell (Graham) and her husband Aaron and Mark Graham and his fiancée Sarah. Cherished Grandmother of Ryan and Rachael O’Donnell. Sadly missed by Rick Graham. Loving sister of Stephen Waller (Deb), Diane Mackenzie (Rod), Michael Waller (Marjie) and all of her many nieces, nephews, extended family and coworkers.  Pam’s life centred around her family, her many friends, and her love of work.  She was fortunate enough to make a living doing what she loved. She will be remembered for her mischievous sense of humour that brought smiles to all that knew her.  Visitation will be held on Sunday, May 4th >from 2-4 p.m. and >6-9 p.m. at the WESTVIEW FUNERAL CHAPEL, >709 Wonderland Road North, where the funeral service will be conducted on Monday, May 5th, 2014 >at 11:00 a.m.  Interment to follow at Woodland Cemetery.  We would like to extend a special thanks to Dr. Ott, Dr. Hahn, Dr. Hamilton and Eva Gyacskov, whose compassion and care for her was extraordinary. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to London Regional Cancer Program. Online condolences may be made at >www.westviewfuneralchapel.com 

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To the Waller Family, I was very sad to learn of Pam's passing. Please know you're in my thoughts and prayers and I hope your happy and special memories of Pam will help to ease your pain. Fondly, Julie

~ Julie (Haddow) Zacharopoulos

Dear Melissa, Aaron, Ryan, Rachael and Family, We just heard the news and we are very saddened for your family. Our hearts and minds are with you at this time! Love Always and know that your most cherished memories will help in time.

~ Cheryl, Jeff O'Donnell and Famimly

Dear Aaron & Melissa, Our deepest condolences on the passing of your Mom. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Mike, Tracy, Ryan & Matthew

~ Mike Steele & family

Your mother will always live in all our hearts, in our memories and in the way you see the world. May you find comfort in her soft presence that surrounds all of you everyday.

~ Shelley Steeper

Our deepest sympathy and prayers are with the family at this time. David Landon and Dorene Turvey

~ D avid Landon

To the Wallers and your families, Memories are a gift and the many I have of Windsor Ave and growing up with our families and the many baseball games...fire cracker nights...kick the can...hide and seek...as well as watching our parents enjoy their poker nights are cherished ones. I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Pam. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. Love from Jane

~ Jane Murray (Lawson )

Dearest Mark & Sarah, Mel & Aaron, Ryan & Rachel, Steve & Deb, Diane, Rick, Mike and Marjie: Our Love, Thought & Prayers are with you all as Ian & I cannot express the profound loss you must all be feeling. Pammy, was my best friend for 60 years & shall be forever treasured & loved. Her mother Audrey & mine Irene, were dear friends as well. A quick funny story of how Pam & I met. Both our mother's were taking their driving test together in Old South London & they had Pam & me in bassinette's in the back seat, asleep of course! So you could say we had met then & new we were destined to be life-long friends. She was my sister I never had. While attending Wortley Road Public School, especially in Kindergarten, Pam hid my crayons in the dollhouse, so I couldn't color. Numerous times she pulled the little tykes chair out from under me. Of course I would tumble to the ground & we would both just laugh & hug each other. As we got older, much older Pam would come and stay for weekends at our cottage in Grand Bend. We had some pretty unforgettable experiences together & if only these wall's could talk!! You know these are the true story's that memories are made of. So in closure, Pam you shall be truly missed, never forgotten, as "You Shall Live in Our Heart's Forever".

~ Janice & Ian Robertson (McLean)

Pam was a wonderful person. Whenever I had a meeting in Headquarters I would drop by Pam's desk for a laugh and jelly bean. Even when she wasn't feeling well she had a smile on her face. We will miss you dearly....my deepest condolences to her family.

~ Patty Wexler

Dear Melissa and Mark and family: Pam will always live in my heart, as she will in yours. She will be in the sunshine and the sunsets at the beach. She will be beside you when you sip a glass of wine and nibble on cheese and crackers. She loved you all and spoke of you with kindness and laughter in her voice. Our "girls" vacations will not be the same without her. A tribute to our mothers: Your mother is always with you. She's the place you came from, your first home, she's the map you follow every step you take. She's your first love, your first friend, even your first enemy, and nothing can separate you. Not time, not space...not even death. Right now she lives inside your tears but as time goes on she will live inside your laughter. Love Lynn Martin Dale and Matthew.

~ Lynn Stephenson

I am so sorry for your loss. Pam was a wonderful woman whose smile and sense of humour created joy and laughter. We shared many jokes and much laughter over the years we worked together at the health unit. I especially enjoyed Pam's twinkle in her eye when you just knew she was up to something and her ability to be direct and honest. Pam loved her family and friends. The stars will shine brighter with her spirit in Heaven. My thoughts and prayers go to her family. Heather

~ Heather (Clarke) Thomas

Dear Mark, Melissa & Family I was very sad to hear of Pam's passing. I would like to express our deepest sympathy to you and the family. Anna May & family

~ Anna May & Steve Cooke

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~ Cathy Hiscott

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~ cindy arthurs

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~ Jessica Timbrell

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~ Terry Finlay

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~ Jane Murray ( Lawson )

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~ Brian and Valerie Hahn

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~ UH Emerg

Pam's passing is a tremendous loss to so many. She was a fabulous person, with a dynamic personality and great sense of humour. Pam loved and cherished her family and valued her many, many friendships. I feel very fortunate having Pam in my life and will truly miss her and all the laughs we shared. My sincere condolences to all of you.

~ Mary McCabe

Melissa, Mark and family, We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Pam. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time and we will continue to keep you in our thoughts as you work through all of this.

~ Lois and Larry Fantin

To all the "Waller" clan, my sympathies to you all. Pam is a part of our great memories of growing up on Windsor Ave... baseball games, May 24th weekends, fort to fort, card games on the porches, hide and seek, trips to St Josephs cottage, making tidal currents in your pool, street weddings, Beatles productions.... Hope these fond memories bring comfort in the days ahead. We have been blessed to have her in our lives. Take good care of each other XO

~ Pam Browne (Sodawater)

Pam was loved and respected by everyone who she worked with at London Life. We will miss her smile and her positive cheery attitude. She was a special lady who I was blessed to call my friend. May the wonderful times you shared as a family help you through the days ahead. My deepest sympathy.

~ Kathy Petit

Melissa, Mark, Rick, Aaron, Sarah, Ryan and Rachael: My heart is broken for all of you, at the loss of my beautiful Aunt Pam. I am so sorry for your loss. There are no words that will ease your pain. Please know that we are thinking of you and please don't hesitate to ask if there's anything we can do. She will be greatly missed.

~ Sue Fratarcangeli and Family

I was so lucky to have had the chance to work with Pam. She was truly a gem of a person. Professional, respected, witty and had a flare for being organized. I remember coming in one day to find my entire filing cabinet colour co-ordinated, alphabetized and labeled. I absolutely loved her. She was such an amazing person. I will never be able to look at a jelly bean again without thinking of her! My heart goes out to her family during their time of loss. I'm so sorry.

~ April Stewart

Melissa, Aaron and family. We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Please let us know if there is anything we can do.

~ Kristen and Mike Norris

Pam was one of a kind! She loved her life and her family so much. I will always treasure my memories and my friendship with Pam. I am going to miss you Pam Graham.

~ Steve Riddick

My heart goes out to her family especially her children who she loved so very much. She was truly a pillar of strength for all the 28 years I have known her. I'm going to miss our talks but all that you taught me will last forever in my heart. You were a wonderful friend.

~ Terry Finlay

Mark and family, I am so sorry for your loss, I am sure you have many happy memories to carry you through this time. Our deepest condolences. Jeff and Franny Werby

~ Jeff Werby

Words cannot adequately express the deep sadness and loss I am feeling after Pam's passing. I was truly blessed to have her light and laughter in my life for the last 35 years. Know that I am here to support you through this difficult journey. Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the difficult days ahead, and loving memories of Pam to forever hold in your hearts. xo B

~ Becky Barcauskas

I am so very sorry for your loss. Pam was a great lady and you couldn't help but be happy when she was around. She will always be an indelible part of my fond memories of growing up on Windsor Avenue. Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

~ Linda Rowe and Family

Dear Melissa, Aaron, Ryan and Rachael So very sorry to hear about Pam's passing. She will be missed so much by your family. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers at this sad and difficult time.

~ Jeanne O'Donnell and Family

Melissa, Aaron, Mark, Sarah, Ryan, Rachael & Family, Pam's laughter, kindness and wonderful sense of humour will always be remembered by many of us who not only had the pleasure of working with her, but had the honour of calling her "friend". I hope you find comfort in sharing many wonderful memories of times together. Pam loved her family so very much and was especially proud of Melissa and Mark. Godspeed to the most wonderful lady. I will miss you very much. xo

~ Jennifer de Vries & Family

my condolences Melissa and Mark and Waller families I have great memories of the Wallers on Windsor Ave from being baby sat by Steve and Diane and baby sitting all 9 grand children at the Wallers house and at your home in Byron Melissa and Mark your mom will never be forgotten she was loved by many

~ Collleen Fryer (cooky Colleen )

To Mark and Family. I am so sorry to hear of Pam's passing. She was an amazing lady. I loved seeing her, with her smiles and funny stories. She will be sadly missed. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Lynn

~ Lynn Oliver

Dear Melissa, Aaron, Ryan, Rachael and Family, I was saddened to hear about the passing of dear Pam. Please be assured of my prayers for the progress of her soul, and for solace and comfort to your grieving hearts. With much love. Farnoosh

~ Farnoosh Etemad

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