Pam Forcey
April 16, 2012
Peacefully at her residence on Monday, April 16th, 2012, Pam (Vanderhoeven) Forcey, of London, at the age of 44. Beloved wife of Andy. Loving mother of Emma, Jessica and Addison. Dear daughter of John and Mary Vanderhoeven. Sister of Laurie Ritchie and Jim (Sue) Vanderhoeven. Also survived by several nieces and nephews. We will miss your beautiful smile and the genuine warmth you brought wherever you went. An unbelievable athlete, with sprinting records that haven’t been broken in 29 years. My best friend for 27 years and the kindest, warmest mother of 3 beautiful girls. I will miss you every day and will always love you. Visitation will be held at the WESTVIEW FUNERAL CHAPEL, 709 Wonderland Road North, on Wednesday from 4:00 – 7:00 p.m., with prayers at 4:00 p.m. The Funeral Mass will be celebrated at St. Michael’s Parish, 511 Cheapside Street, on Thursday, April 19th, 2012 at 10:00 a.m. Cremation to follow. Those wishing to make a donation in memory of Pam are asked to consider Wellspring or the scholarship fund for Emma, Jessica and Addison (Cheques payable to: Andrew Forcey in Trust, reference Branch #0256 – Account #6416427, mail to: Ms. Donna Livingstone, Manager of Financial Services, TD Canada Trust, 1663 Richmond Street, London, Ontario, N6G 2N3)
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Andy, my sincerest condolences to you and your family during this incredibly sad time. I am sending you and the girls much love.
Andy, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
I went to Jean Vanier with Pam in grade 3,4 and 5.She was and still is the preattiest girl I ever got to know.My heart is deflated with her loss.
Our Family wishes to express our condolences to Pam's loved ones. We have many memories of Pam and her family as a small child. From her picture in the paper and what many of her friends have acknowledged here she obviously matured into a beautiful person,that people liked to be around. We are sorry for your tremendous loss and please know we are thinking of you all. Robin Taylor
Although it has been almost a week, I think of Pam every day. She was very blessed to have such a loving family at her side as she battled this unforgiving disease. It became so apparent last week, how many lives she has touched and how much she was loved. I am grateful that I had the opportunity to work with Pam. Her vibrant ways, that smile that warmed the heart and a laugh that always made you smile. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Andy, there are no words. Our hearts, thoughts and prayers go out to you and the girls.
It was with great sadness, Mary and John, that I learned of the death of your beautiful daughter, Pam. My heart goes out to you and your family and especially to Pam and Andy's young daughters. There are no words that can express the depth of my sorrow for all of you. Please know that I am thinking of you and praying that, in time, you will find comfort in happy memories.
My heart is broken for you Pam and your lovely family you have left behind. I thought of nothing else this weekend. I wondered how your Andy, Emma, Jessica and baby Addison were doing on the first weekend without wife and Mommy. I too worked with Pam and feel blessed to have known her for eight years, and also as a friend. She was a Shining Star which seems to be the general feeling of everyone who knew Pam. Gone too soon and I don’t understand why. Why do bad things happen to good people is a question that continues to haunt me? I will continue to pray for you Andy, your girls and both your families to find strength to journey on. I keep hoping that the past week was just a dream – I can only wish. So my shining star, I will always look for you up there in the sky looking down on all of us and wondering how we are doing. Because that’s you Pam – always caring about everybody else. So long special lady……………….
My heart is broken for you Pam and your lovely family you have left behind. I thought of nothing else this weekend. I wondered how your Andy, Emma, Jessica and baby Addison were doing on the first weekend without wife and Mommy. I too worked with Pam and feel blessed to have known her for eight years, and also as a friend. She was a Shining Star which seems to be the general feeling of everyone who knew Pam. Gone too soon and I don’t understand why. Why do bad things happen to good people is a question that continues to haunt me? I will continue to pray for you Andy, your girls and both your families to find strength to journey on. I keep hoping that the past week was just a dream – I can only wish. So my shining star, I will always look for you up there in the sky looking down on all of us and wondering how we are doing. Because that’s you Pam – always caring about everybody else. So long special lady……………….
Andy , I am so sorry for your loss,Pam was such an amazing woman and she made such an impact on all of the nurses that cared for her,we have your beautiful family picture in our back staff room and think of you all with heavy hearts.Take care of your girls.
We are thinking of you and the girls Andy. Your Buckeye family, George Gans
I am sorry to hear about your loss Andy. Your 3 trophies will keep their mothers' dreams alive. Thoughts and prayers are with you and the girls. Bill
Andy, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. It has been many years since we have seen each other. We are sorry for your loss.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. Wishing you peace and strength in your love and memories.
Andy, we are so sorry to hear about the loss of your wife. Thoughts and prayers go out to you , the girls and all your family at this sorrowful time. The Buckeye Hockey Alumni will keep you all in their hearts!
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Andy and the girls- I know Dave has spoke for our family and he said it best. It is not everyday you meet someone like Pam. Her smile, her genuine caring, friendship and love was so evident. We will remember our times on the beach in Grand Bend. May you see Pam's great qualities in your daughters everyday! You are in our thoughts and prayers. Much Love, Abby and family
Andy, Emma, Jessie, Addie, We send our thoughts, prayers and condolences. Please remember and draw upon the love and friendships surrounding you. God Bless you and your family.
Our deepest condolences to you Andy and the family. We have not seen you and Pam in several years but will always remember the good times we had together in London. You are in our thought s and prayers?
Pam was such a warm, caring and beautiful person. We were fortunate to see Pam and her family almost every day during the year we cared for Addison. We had many good chats with Pam. She was so proud of her family and always flashed that famous smile when she dropped off or picked up Addison. We will miss you.
Andy, Our deepest sympathies to you and your family. We're so sorry to hear the sad news. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Andy and Girls - Our hearts are saddened by your loss. Our thoughts, prayers, hugs and blessings are with you.
Andy, Emma, Jessie & Addie, Your beautiful family has suffered an enormous loss. It is our wish that the love you shared, the memories that you created and the family bonds that you forged will sustain you and give you strength. Pam will always be remembered. Our thoughts are with you at this very difficult time.
Very sorry to hear of your loss Andy. Our thoughts, prayers and very best to you and your family. Hope to see you soon. The MacLean Family
Andy and Family. We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and our prayers are with you through this very difficult time.
god called home his newest angel,,, rip Pamela,,,its been many yrs since we have all seen each other, but i always remember you smiling and laughing at family get togethers,you put up a good fight, now rest deepest sympathies to Andy and the girls, and to uncle John n Aunt Mary, Jimmie Laurie -Anne and families
Andy, Emma, Jessie, and Addison Heaven took an amazing woman way too early. We are heart broken about Pam's passing. She truly was an inspiration to all, her positive attitude and her love for her family and friends was evident in all aspects of her life. We hope in the coming days you will find comfort with the wonderful memories you have of your beautiful wife and mother. Our prayers and thoughts are with you. The DeVos family
Our condolences.Our thoughs and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Joe, Lynda, Jeff, Emily Franze.
Andy, Emma, Jessica & Addison...deeply saddened to hear of your loss of Pam. May God`s peace surround you during this very difficult time. Thoughts and prayers are with you all. Pam was such a light and Heaven truly has another angel.
Dear Andy,Emma,Jessical & Addisson........we are so very sorry to hear about the loss of your beautiful wife and mom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time. She will be forever in your hearts. Love the Atom Develettes A Team
Andy, Emma, Jessica and Addison Our sincerest condolences and we are saddened at your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. May you find comfort in your memories of Pam and in the support of family and friends.
Andy,Emma, Jessie and Addisson. We send our thoughts and condolences. We are very sorry to hear about the loss of Pam. We had the great pleasure to meet Pam in Sweden . We have spend the last couple of days watching pictures and crying a lot. You are in our thoughts. With love from Stisse,Carina, Moa, Calle, Berit and Rune
Dear Andy: I lived next door to Pam from grade 1 through grade 11. She was my best friend as a child. I have so many fond and vivid memories. I went to Saunders for three years so I am aware you started your journey together as teenagers. My parents attended your wedding. My heart goes out to you and your three daughters and aches for you all. I am so sorry you have lost Pam. Mary, John, Laurie and Jim my deepest sympathy and my thoughts are with all of you.
Andy, I am so sorry for your loss. I had the opportunity to watch Pam run track when I worked at Western. I then got the opportunity to see her become an amazing wife and wonderful Mother. She was a special person, and I am so proud to have the honor to know both of you. My heart and prayers go out to you and your beautiful daughters.
I haven't seen Pam since high school but remember her infectious smile and great attitude. My condolences to Andy, the girls and all of their families. God bless. Chris
My thoughts are with you all. I feel so fortunate to have worked with Pam. Such a beautiful person and a bright star! She was the heart of the team and her smile lit up our office every day. I will cherish these memories always. Hugs.
Andy and family, we are so sorry to hear about your loss. Our deepest sympathies and condolences from our family and all our little tyke players in North London hockey.
Both Maxine and I have very fond memories of Pam from Western. I as her team mate for 4 years and Maxine as her competitor running for Windsor. She will be remembered for the great times we had and her leadership on the team. Our prayers are with you.
Andy, Emma, Jessie and Addie.........one can not express how sorry we are to hear about the loss of a wonderful wife and mother. Whether at the rink or on the school grounds, Pam always had a smile on her face. May you find peace in this difficult time and know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Dustin, Shelley, Amanda and Mackenzie
Andy and Family , our deepest thoughts and prayers go out to you at this difficult time. Pam was a very special person, always with a smile on her face. She will be missed by everyone, but never forgotten.
Condolences to the Forcey and Vanderhoeven families. A great loss for so many. All hail to Pam for all she accomplished in so many ways, not the least of which as having established herself in her university career as an all-time great in Western Mustang Track & Field. A beautiful person. Requiescat in Pace
My condolences to Pam's daughters, husband, the Forcey and the Vanderhoeven families for this tragic loss of such a wonderful person at such a young age. I will always remember Pam for her big heart and her competitive spirit.
I am so sorry for your loss. I had the privilege of working with Pam at Canada Trust for a while. She made a big impression on me. She was a very kind and caring person with a smile and chat for all. My late husband Ernie also work at Spencer Hall and unknowingly was speaking of this young woman who always had a smile and was such a kind and thoughtful person he got to chat with every now and again. It was the same lovely young woman Pam Forcey. She left a bit of herself with both of us. Again my condolences go to all the family, it is a very sad loss.
Andy, our hearts are heavy with the loss of your beautiful wife Pam. Our prayers go out to her and to you, your daughters and extended family. With heart felt sympathy, Mark and Jan, Ryan and Jessie Mishriky
Andy, Emma, Jessica and Addison, One can not express how sorry we are to hear about the loss of a wonderful wife and mother. Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Adam, Jen & Emily
I feel so blessed that I was fortunate enough to know such an amazing woman and know that the memories she has left will bring smiles and joy to everyone she has touched. Embrace her with all your heart and when you gaze into the stars that are smiling so brightly back at you, you know it is Pam sending her love and joy. 'Bestow upon Thy heavenly handmaiden, O God, the holy fragrances born of the spirit of Thy forgiveness. Cause her to dwell in a blissful abode, heal her griefs with the balm of Thy reunion, and, in accordance with Thy will, grant her admission to Thy holy Paradise. Let the angels of Thy loving-kindness descend successively upon her, and shelter her beneath Thy blessed Tree. Thou art, verily, the Ever-Forgiving, the Most Generous, the All-Bountiful.'
I know words will never be enough but Pam's memory will live for ever with family and friends. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Andy, Pam is with you through your beautiful girls. She has passed to Emma her warmth, kindness and a wonderful laugh. She has given to Jess bravery, athleticism and tenacity. She has given to Addison energy, joy and wonder. You are all such beautiful people and may you find strength as you require it. Praying for you. Mike, Wendy, Elizabeth,Carolyn,Julianna and Andrea Kosturik
Andy, Jessica, Emma and Addison, we were shocked and saddened to hear of Pam's passing. We are so sorry for your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Pam was a wonderful person and we will miss her greatly. We are thinking of you, your three beautiful girls and the rest of both of your families.
I was surprised and saddened to hear the news about Pam. I had the pleasure of working with Pam twice in my career at CT/TD. She was a truly beautfiul person inside and out. Incredibly intelligent, kind and full of energy and spirit. The world has lost a beautiful person, and gained an angel. Michelle
Andy &the girls, Uncle John,Aunt Mary,Laurie Ann, Jimmy&families sorry i can`t make it to the visitation was shocked to hear about pamela ,haven`t seen her in a while, i remember her smile at family gatherings our thoughts and prayers are with you. Jerry&family
Dear Andy, Emma, Jessica and Addison. I am so very sad and sorry for the loss of Pam - your wonderful friend and wife, and your loving and proud mother. Pam was such a great person to work with and who became a friend. She passes onto the girls a fantastic legacy of her great smile and warmth and caring of a great heart. Andy your memories of her will no doubt never fade.....and she is right there in front of you when you look at your beautiful, strong girls. Pam's wings will forever surround you and uplift you in your hardest times....her spirit will never depart you as she is truly an angel watching over you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, the girls and your families. Ann-Marie, Mike, Ibhade and Ebehi.
Andy, Emma, Jessica and Addison--please accept our deepest condolences for the loss of your wife and mother, Pam. I had the great pleasure of knowing and working with Pam many years ago at Suzy Shier in White Oaks Mall. She had just started dating Andy and was always beaming when he came into the store. She was a lovely, sweet and wonderful person to know and work with. Indeed it was her warm personality and infectious smile that drew everyone to her! She had a giggle that endeared one to her instantly! As luck would have it years later when our kids trained with Andy I was thrilled to discover it was the same Andy who dated our Pam and even more happy to learn they married and had 3 beautiful little girls. When I did see Pam again it was as if time stood still and here was our "Little Pam" again! Nothing had changed--same sweet smile and warm personality. May every memory of that beautiful smile warm your hearts and comfort you today and every day to come! God Bless you all, Maria, Rob, Rai and Victoria Di Loreto
Andy and Girls, We are so saddened to hear of your loss, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Pam was a wonderful wife and loving mother who will never be forgotten, she will live on in your hearts.
My thoughts are with Andy, the Forcey and the Vanderhoeven families. When I recall our track training days together it was Pam who still sported that smile and her unmistakeable bounce in her stride even midway through a tough workout. It was that same spring in her step that earned her the nickname “Roo” on the volleyball court in high school. Pam’s easy laugh and unbridled energy drew people to her as she bounded through a life well lived and well loved.
I feel so fortunate to have spent time with Pam. Our neighbourhood ladies games night will never be the same. She lit up the room and had the most infectious laugh. I will miss her love of life, her devotion to her girls and the happiness that she found with Andy was something that she shared willingly. The neighbourhood will be all the poorer for not having her here with us but all the richer for having shared in a small part of her life. My heart goes out to her family.
Andy , our thoughts and prayers are with you and the girls at this most difficult time.
Andy,extending deep and heartfelt sympathy to you and your family, our thoughts are with you at this time.
I feel so lucky to have spent several years working with Pam and to see our relationship blossom to a great friendship. I will forever remember not only her beautiful and infectious smile, but her warmth, her caring and loving personality. Her positive energy and enthusiasm was truly admirable. Andy and the girls - you meant the world to her - you were her everything. My heart goes out to your family during these difficult times. She will forever be in all of our hearts.
Andy and girls: We are so sorry to hear of your loss. May the love that you shared live on forever and the memories comfort you during this difficult time. Sherri, Terry, Mackenzie and Grayson Graham
Pam you are too young!.. Andy and I spent a few wonderful years with Pam as a fellow sprinters and then I, as her sprint coach while at Western. She and I share the unofficial 'media' title as "stalwart" for our respective teams - strength, comraderie, encouragement, support, leadership. Above all, Pam's was a loving and infectiously beautiful spirit. And, I will not forget the genuine perspective and warmth of her smile... Heartfelt sympathies for your loss.
Andy and the girls, We are truly saddened in Pam's passing, but please try to take comfort in knowing that you will always have your our angel watching over you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless.
Andy, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Pam was such a wonderful person. We will remember always her beautiful smile and the true happiness she showed when she was with you.
Although I did not know Pam personally, since I was two grades ahead, I do remember her presence around highschool and our connection with common sports related classmates and friends. She will be sadly missed.
Pam's beauty resonated from the inside out. Her smile was the most heartwarming & sincere I've ever felt. Our deepest thoughts and prayers are with her family. One of her biggest admirers is holding her hand now.
Pam's beauty resonated from the inside out. Her smile was the most heartwarming and sincere I've ever felt. Our deepest thoughts and prayers are with her family right now. One of her biggest admirers ia holding her hand right now.
Dear Andy and Family, Words seem inadequate to express the sadness we feel for your loss. Please know that we are thinking of you and your entire family during this very difficult time. With sincere sympathy, Jason Enright and Family.
Pam will be missed by so many. Her contagious laugh, her warm smile and her zest for life. She will forever be in our memories, and of Andy's and the girls. As they grow into beautiful young women, part of her will always be there. Love, Hammer and Sue
Our many sympathies on your loss. Pam will be remembered very fondly. Lynne, John and Josee
Pam was a beautiful person who obviously touched many people in many very positive ways. Her remarkable grace is what struck me as her most prolific feature.That grace of Pam's will live on in her beautiful daughters..Andy, my sincere sympathies.
Thank you Pam for giving me the gift of friendship. For over 20 years your continued support, compassion and sincere gestures of friendship will be treasured forever. Your undying strength is truly amazing. I am a better person for having you in my life and am so grateful for our times together. Today your family demonstrated the grace and strength that defined you. I will miss you always.
Jessie and family, our thought and prayers are with you.
Today we witnessed the incredible love, grace and courage that Pam and Andy have passed along to their beautiful daughters. How incredibly proud she would be to hear them speak so eloquently and courageous about her. Pam is one of the strongest women we've known, one that we will always remember. So happy that we had New York, those memories will be treasured forever. Rest in peace beautiful lady.
This news came as such a shock. Even though I haven't seen Pam in 20 years, I will always remember her as a beautiful and incredibly kind girl that was always smiling and laughing and full of joy. Pam accepted and treated Andy's friends like they were family. Andy, I am so sorry. I hope for you and your girls to be able to find the strength to get through this in time. Condolences also to your entire family and to the Vanderhoevens.
With our deepest sympathy. Pam always took the time to say hello, she will be missed by our Family, Luis, Shannon, Emma , Maddie, and Sydney.
Love and miss you already my friend, but feel blessed you will live on through your beautiful girls. Sending love to Andy, the girls and family. Pam will always be in our hearts.
Her smile and warmth as Andy said above will be always remembered. She was such a shining light....just shining somewhere else now. My thoughts are with you Andy and your three beautiful girls. I also know she will be missed by her great friends that supported her. She will continue to live in your hearts daily.
Dear Andy & girls, Our deepest sympathy in the loss of your incredible wife and mother Pam who left us far too soon. May all of the wonderful memories help you through this terrible time. Our family will always cherish the moments we spent with your family at the beach in Grand Bend. We were truly blessed to have met Pam and the wonderful attitude that she brought to her own life and the lives of her family. She will truly be missed by all that were fortunate enough to have known her.
With our deepest sympathy. Pam you were the most unselfish person I knew, always willing to give. I will miss your smile amd laughter. In our heartys forever. Sending Andy, Emma, Jessica, and Addison our love. We were truly blessed to have known Pam xoxo Love Joe, Connie, Noah and Mikaela
Dear Andy & girls I am truly blessed to have had Pam in my life. She was a very special gift to all of us and will be remembered every single day. I will cherish my memories with her during our track athletic days and even more so later as adults. Pam's memory will carry on through her girls, her friends, family and all of our wonderful memories of her. I hope your sorrow moves quickly to great happy memories you can laugh about. Pam's laugh will never be forgotten! The human spirit is very resilient although I truly hate that it needs to be tested for its strength in this way. xoxo
A beautiful light has gone out, far too soon. But the legacy Pam leaves will never be forgotten. I am so grateful that I had the chance to get to know her - her beautiful smile, her positive energy that never wavered. My heart goes out to everyone whose life has been touched by Pam ~ especially Andy and her incredible girls. You were her everything and I can’t even begin to imagine how hard this must be for you…you haven’t left my thoughts... Madde & Gigi send special hugs to their friend Addie. Love Sue, Rob, Madde & Gigi
Andy & Family, so sorry to hear this news. We will be thinking of you and praying for your strength. Greg Storms & Eleanor Heagy
Andy & Family: We were saddened to hear of Pam's passing. Our prayers and condolences go out to you and your family.
Andy and family, I wish I had a chance to meet Pam. Kraig told me how wonderful she was. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers and we are truly heartbroken for your loss. Giant hugs.
Andy my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your girls at this sad and very difficult time.
Andy & Family - We were truly shocked when Tim called to say your lovely wife passed away. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your girls at this most difficult time.
Andy & Girls - we wanted to let you know that you are in thoughts and prayers and please except our most sincere sympathies.
Though I have not seen Pam for many years,. I will always remember her beautiful, friendly smile and will remember her as a generous friend to many. My sincere condolences and prayers to you and your daughters and families. God bless her soul.
May God bless your beautiful soul Pam. Your warm smile and kind, caring nature will be missed by all those who were blessed with your friendship. The Laser soccer family will fondly remember the cheers and positive encouragement you gave the girls from the side lines. Andy, Emma, Jessie and Addy, our thoughts and prayers are always with you. Rob, Maria, Giulia and Jessica.
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To Andrew and family , Please accept my deepest sympathies on your loss of a wife and mother . Words cannot express the care and love with which you are surrounded at this sad time . With love always , Pat McWade.
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