Judy Stirling
January 9, 2024
After a lengthy battle with cancer, on January 9, 2024, at the age of 69, we lost our beloved Judy Stirling of London, Ontario. Judy managed her cancer treatments and remissions for more than 20 years. Judy will be missed terribly by her loving husband of 42 years, Rob Stirling. She was a devoted mother to her two sons, Tom (Sarah) in Komoka and Jeff (Carolyn) in Calgary, and a fabulous grandmother (Ju-Ju) to her Calgary grandchildren Emerson, Elle and Avery, who will miss her dearly. The daughter of Tom and Bunny Maltby, and sister of David Maltby and Nancy Maltby-Webster (Ross Webster). Judy will be dearly missed by her family especially by Nancy’s girls Kelly, Leslie, and Jackie. The same is true for the wide circle of friends who could be found with Judy at the Bridge Club, at Sunningdale or the Squash Club where the Stirlings have been members for many years, or at her local Starbucks chatting over a treasured cup of coffee. Always a keen intellect, Judy earned a Master of Social Work and worked tirelessly to help others, including 40 years spent dedicated to social work here in London. She became an artist of beautiful paintings after retirement. These paintings hang in the homes of friends and family and will always serve as a welcome memory of the warm, generous and funny woman we all miss so much. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests a donation to the London Regional Cancer Program where Judy was always treated with great care and compassion. Details of a Celebration of Life to be held in the Spring and will be shared accordingly.
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A donation has been made to London Regional Cancer Program. Message from the donator: Rob, Jeff and Tom With our deepest condolences. Judy was a terrific person. Cherish the memories.
Dear Stirling family, Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss. I met Judy in early 2000, as a result of a horrendous, lifechanging auto accident. Judy was assigned to me in a counselling role to help me heal and regain direction in life. I am humbled to have had this exemplary human being in my corner at a daunting, tumultuous time in my life. Judy worked with me for over 2 years on many issues during my recovery. She was instrumental in helping me put myself back together and I've become even more than I was. I owe her so very much for her unwavering kindness and understanding. I have tears of sadness mixed with the tears of joy to have known Judy. There are countless others like me who were given a hand up by this remarkable woman. Sincerely, Geoff James St Thomas ON
Dear Rob, Tom, Jeff and families - heartfelt condolences on the loss of Judy. I enjoyed working with her for many years and very much appreciated her energy, intelligence, courage and sense of fun. How lucky was I when she picked my name one year for our consultation group's "Secret Santa", and gifted me with a piece of her artwork! She is missed. Andy joins me in sending wishes your way. Pam Sancton
Dear Rob, Jeff and Tom. We are so saddened to hear of Judy’s passing. Our deepest condolences.
Dear Rob, Tom, and Jeff, Sincere condolences on your loss. This has been a long, difficult journey for your family, and I hope you will all find peace in the coming days. You have my deepest sympathy. Gary Blazak
Dear Rob, Tom and Jeff, Words cannot express our sadness for your loss. Judy was a marvel and always had a smile. We had a lot of laughs thru the earlier years with our game group dinners and skiing in Ellicotville. It was always inspiring and so lovely to bump into her here and there. Judy’s gentleness always shine thru. We will miss you Judy. Xo sending love.
Nancy. My deepest sympathy in the time of your loss. Thinking of you and the girls.
Rob and family and Nancy and girls So sorry to read of Judy's passing. We have not seen Judy for many years but will always remember her smile, wit and sense of humor. Pray you all find comfort in your ever lasting family memories and knowing she is free of pain.
Thinking of Judy's family at this sad and difficult time.
Rob, Tom, Jeff and families, Please accept our sympathies on the loss of Judy. I worked with Judy for a number of years in private practice. She was creative, direct and always funny. We are one of the fortunate ones who have one of her paintings in our home. Her spirit will be missed. Sharon and Kang
Just wanted to say how very sorry I am to hear of Judy’s passing . I will be forever grateful for her guidance and support during the stressful and difficult times in my life some years ago . Judy’s calming voice and gentle presence as we talked , helped me then and continue to this day . Her understanding , compassion and kindness were always evident . By chance we were both in a painting class together …..Judy’s paintings were absolutely beautiful ! One in particular always stands out in my mind ….two burgundy toned Adirondack chairs in the foreground , possibly at a lake . It was simply outstanding ! Although I haven’t been in touch over the years , Judy will be remembered . She made a difference . Once again , I’m so sorry for your loss . MaryAnn Kristoff
Please accept our sincere sympathies in the loss of a beloved wife, mother, sister and grandmother. Words cannot even begin to express our sorrow. Our lives have been enriched by knowing her as she brought so many gifts and even though she has left this world, we will never forget her. Her positive attitude and courage were an inspiration to many. May the precious memories of Judy give you comfort and strength and help you through the difficult days ahead.
Judy was a happy person whose positive energy was shared with everyone she met. We cherish our times together. Our sincere condolences Rob, Jeff, Tom and families. May her love and spirit be everlasting.
So sorry to hear of Judy's passing. My condolences to her family. As a social work colleague of Judy I knew her first as Judy Maltby and then Stirling. She was a well respected social worker in London and I am sure will be missed by her family , many friends and clients she helped over the years. I also remember Judy being a gifted athlete as well Sincerely Tom Massel
I was in the BSW program with Judy at King "s ;Judy was kind ,generous and well liked by all . Judy and Rob were very generous opening their home and hosted many reunions over the years . We will all miss Judy :s kindness and sense of humour .
Rob and Family, Judy will be remembered for the kind and beautiful soul that she embodied. I will hold dear our time together at Sunningdale - Judy's lovely smile. With sincere condolences. Never forgotten, always in our hearts.
Judy dealt with her cancer journey with grace and dignity. She will be remembered for her warm smile and caring nature, as well as her natural artistic abilities. A friend to many, she will be greatly missed. Our thoughts are with Rob and family.
I am a huge fan of Judy Stirling, the woman who married my cousin, Rob. We never got to hang out much, but she was my mentor regarding mental health. She always helped me navigate the treacherous waters of mental fragility in the family and how to support loved ones without enabling. Incredibly brave - she never uttered a word of complaint about her 20 years of living with cancer. A beautiful painter - a class act. We will miss you, Judy. Love, Mary
Rob and family, I was saddened to hear of Judy's passing. May your wonderful memories of Judy help you through this difficult time. Judy was always pleasant to speak with when I had an opportunity to see her when i was a starter at Sunningdale. My thoughts are with you all
Rob, Jeff, Tom and family. Sorry to learn of the passing of Judy. Thinking of you at this difficult time. - Dan & Linda
Rob & Family So sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my sincere condolences. Chris Robson
She will be deeply missed by all who knew her and admired her many talents and engaging spirit. Our thoughts are with you Rob and family.
So sorry to hear the news of Judy’s passing. our hearts and thoughts are you Rob and the boys.
What a beautiful person and a tragic loss. She will be missed by us all, but many happy memories.
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Rob and family, I’m so sorry to hear of Judy’s passing.
~ Christine Tallieu