Fern Doreen Heslop (née Graves)

I am no longer working at Longworth but have great memories of Fern . I so enjoyed her company while cleaning her room .

My sincere condolences to all of Fern’s family. My mom, Nancy Best and Fern became great friends over the last few years at Longworth. Keeping tabs on each other and dining together while sharing a laugh or a smart comment! I am grateful for Fern’s kindness towards my mom. She misses her very much. We too were fortunate to get to know Fern and share stories while enjoying Sunday night roast beef dinner in the family dining room. She was quite a lady with a very interesting fulfilling life of service and kindness. She will never be forgotten.

Love you Aunt Fern You'll be missed To ALL her family , Onward and Upward

Aunt Fern was a wonderful Aunt . Conversations were always insightful and witting. I will miss her very much.

When I was introduced to the Sisterhood of P.E.O. Chapter M (London), Fern was so very generous in welcoming me. Fern always showed such interest in my life and news of my family with my husband, Jerry. Fern was indeed a genuine friend, full of joy for others and completely supportive in all ways possible to assist the promotion of women in education. Her support went beyond her own Chapter as she generously contributed to the organizing of our new St. Thomas Chapter in 2023. I loved her sense of humour and sparkle which was contagious. She was an excellent role model to all of us Sisters. May she smile in comfort in Chapter Eternal.

Fern was a wonderful PEO sister and friend. I will miss our chats, her generous nature and that warm and welcoming smile. Denise

Fern was my inspiration ! I loved her like she was my mother , Or older sister . Couldn’t even imagine how hard it was for her to loose 2 sons out of the three she had . But she has grandsons which she loved as only she could love. I know Ken welcomed her with open arms , because he promised her he would wait for her . Fern held me as a baby, and treated me like the daughter she never had. She was the one person in my life , I could and did, go to with all my life questions, my successes, my faults, my troubles, my questions about faith, life, as a mother, as a wife, then a grandmother , everything ! And now I don’t know what I will do without her !

We are sending our deepest condolences to the Heslop family. Fern was such a wonderful person. She will be greatly missed.

Fern and my mom, Eleanor Fair, went through nursing training together and remained friends ever since. Until last year when mom died, they lived a few doors apart at Longworth Retirement Home where they got into wild costumes at every opportunity. Fern's grandson Kevin interviewed them together and continued to collect stories of Fern's remarkable life. She didn't have it easy but she sure was resilient. My favourite Fern expression at the end of a visit: "I'm going to love you and leave you". My sympathies to Mary and family.

Sending condolences to all of Fern’s family. Fern was my friend from Verschoyle Public School in the 1940’s. I remember seeing her on the steps at St. Joseph’s Hospital when she was in training there. I lost track of her for 45 years. My sister Marjorie gave her sister June my address and Fern immediately reached out. We quickly rekindled our friendship and stayed in touch by phone, and visiting back and forth. Ken, Fern, Paul and I had many good times together. Her friendship was a special one to me, and I will miss her. Love and prayers, Dorothy

Dear Heslop Family, We send condolences as you celebrate her life while grieving the loss of your matriarch Fern. Her death sadly reminds us of Kevin’s loss. We so wish that Kevin could walk through the door with some boat part for he and Bob to repair or upgrade. We send blessings to all who love Fern. Hugs, Dawn and Bob.

Fern was our neighbour across the street for many years. She was the self-appointed social director for our condo group and hostessed many parties at her home. Many summers she coordinated enjoyable, outdoor potlucks for the entire neighbourhood. Fern was not only organized, determined and hard-working but also a kind, welcoming face to everyone who attended the parties. She faced many health issues and set backs in life with optimism, good humour and the call for “Onwards and Upwards!”. When she left the neighbourhood there was a void which has never been replaced. We will remember her as a warm, generous, remarkable woman and dear friend. Our sincere condolences to Mary Fitzpatrick and her family and Fern’s family members.

I will truly miss your calls and emails that were always witty, positive and kind. You always left me smiling whenever I spoke to you. Your family is definitely in my thoughts at this time. Michele at Dr. Ouellet's office

Dear Ken and Abbie. Our sincere condolences on the passing of your mother. It sounds like she led a very active and community minded life. May your memories be a comfort to you in the days ahead. Grant & Debbie