Catherine McNicol-Abouatallah
October 19, 2010
McNICOL-ABOUATALLAH, Catherine (Cathy) – Surrounded by family at University Hospital on Tuesday, October 19, 2010, Catherine “Cathy” McNicol-Abouatallah of London at the age of 52. Beloved wife of Michel. Loving mother of Lucianne. Dear daughter of Bev and Jackie McNicol and daughter-in-law of Elias and Soumaya Abouatallah. Loving sister of John (Barb) and Steve and sister-in-law of Nabil (Mary) and Katy (Steve). Survived by aunts Shirley Armstrong and Kaye Cooper (nee McNicol). Special aunt of Stephanie, Elias, Vittorio, Isabella, Antonio, Katie and Jessica. Cathy will also be missed by many cousins, relatives and friends. At Cathy’s request, cremation has taken place. Visitation will be held at the WESTVIEW FUNERAL CHAPEL, 709 Wonderland Road North, London, on Saturday, October 23, 2010 from 2:00-4:00 p.m. where the memorial service will be conducted at 4:00 p.m. Those wishing to make a donation in memory of Cathy are asked to consider the London Health Sciences Foundation – Cancer Centre. Online condolences available at >www.westviewfuneralchapel.com
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Mike, when my mom called to inform me about Cathy, I started to remember my years at Kazwear and working with Cathy, from the mundane of going over the schedule with her, to the fun of a night out at Gables. Cathy was wonderful to work for and with, I will miss running into her in the Bend. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Lucianne at this time. Joey
We would like to express of deepest sympathies to both the Abouatallah and McNicol Families. Although it is not easy to say good-bye to someone you love, you cannot help but feel relief that they no longer suffer. Cathy was a wonderfull woman and although our encounters were few and far between, every time our paths crossed it was like time had never gone by. Being the ones left behind to live the memories will not be easy, however each time you remember Cathy do not mourn her death,instead celebrate her life. God Bless.
We would like to extend our deepest condolences to both the Abouatallah and McNicol Families.
hi mike both larry and myself express our deepest sympathy to you and your families on the loss of your beloved cathy, we had a chance to know her and feel that we have lost a good friend, she was a very special and unique person, we will always remember her wonderful smile and kind words. may g-d bless you, your daughter and extended families at this very difficult time in your lives and may you always cherish her memory and the good times you had with cathy. joe and larry weisman j & w jobbers ltd.
Dear Mike and Luci, Me and my Family would like to express our deepest sympathies and condolences to you and your families during this difficult time. Cathy was an amazing woman who will continue to have a special spot in our hearts. Our thoughts and prayers are with your during this difficult time. Cathy will truly be missed. Diana (and the entire Lane Family)
Mike & Lucy & family I am so blessed to have worked with Cathy and your family. Judging by the condolences left already I know that you will be supported and loved through this time of grief. Lucy, your Mom was an amazing strong, hard working woman. Take all of your fondest memories as you travel through life. When you need to or want to ask all of your Dad, family and mom's friends to tell you stories and strengths of her life. She was a beautiful woman inside and out. Grand Bend has lost one of it's best!
hi mike and luci we are sorry about your mother she was a very nice mother and wife but now she is in pieace and is not suffering anymore we are thanking of you and our prayers are with you, she will always be remembered and she will always be with you just remember- life is not measured by the number of breath that you take but the moments that take your breath away
Mike & Lucy I am totally lost for words. Just know that you have each other and many, many friends and family to get threw this difficult time. Jackie & Bev You all know how close the McNicol family is to may heart. In life no parent should ever have to lose a child. I am deeply saddened by your loss. Jackie, your phone call the other day brought me comfort and I thank the both of you. John & Steve I will alway's have fond memories of the 3 of you together. Stay strong and remember often, what a great sister you had! My Thoughts and broken heart are with all of you. If there is anything we can do to help any of you. Just know, all you have to do is call. (519) 645-9470
Bev, Jackie,John, Steve, Mike and Lucy please except our deepest condoleness. I remember over the years at the box plant, we would all ways know when Cathy had stopped by as everyone's spirits were lifted and there was a pleasent smell in the air. Cathy had always treated me with kindness and respect. She with be deeply missed. Fonzie
Dear extended McNicol family, So sorry to hear of your great loss. The loss of a child is so overwhelming, and I know all too well what you are going through. Faith is a wonderful thing though, God said He would never leave you comfortless. We send our most heartfelt sympathy and just know that the heartbeat of the McNicol clan will never die. We're just too full of grit. Hurt fadestat, memories don't. Affectionately Judy and Dan Hayward
Mike,Lucianne so sorry to hear about Cathy.Praying that the understanding sympathy of those who care will be a comfort to you.
Dearest Michel, Lucianne and families terribly sorry to hear about Catherine . Thinking and praying for you guys during this tough time. Our condolences and thoughts are with you at this time. God bless you all.
Words cannot describe the loss of such a beautiful and wonderful woman. Cathy will be missed by every single person who ever knew her. Her strength, courage, and charisma will be carried on by Mike and Luci. Cheers to a woman who loved life and the people in it. Go Bears Go!!
My deepest sympanthy goes out to the McNicol and Abouatallah family. Cathy was a kind, warm person and will be remembered by many. Hang on to the beautiful memories you had with her. Mike, I know there is nothing that can ever replace a loved one, just keep remembering all the good times you had with your wife and keep her memory strong with Lucianne. My thoughts have been with you and the one thing that makes me feel better inside, is to know that you have great parents, sisters like Katy and Mary, brothers like Bill and Steve and great nieces and nephews that will make sure they fill Luciannes life with happines.. Good bless all of you.
Mike & Lucianne, It is with great sadness to hear of Cathy's passing. We have many memories of her with the most contagious smile on her face. She was an optimist from the word go and I am sure she thought she would beat this and did indeed fight it with so much dignity & courage. Grand Bend will miss this lady but hopefully you and Lucianne, and your great parents and family & extended family can carry on her great spirit in that great building you have built. We know she loved the beach in and in her vacation trips. She will not be forgotten. Sincerely, Jane & John, Scot,Lee, Shelby and Stevie.
Dear Mike, Lucianne and family We were greatly saddened to hear of Cathy's passing. We have many fond memories of visiting you and Cathy when our daughter Joey worked in the store. You have been in our thoughts. Dave, Linda and Alexandria.
Mike and Luci I am so sorry that my condolences come so late. I stopped into the White Oaks store last week while visiting London and received the sad news. I don't have words to express my sadness at hearing of the loss of Cathy. Cathy was a tough boss but it was only because she had such passion about everything she did. She lived and breathed her family and business. I feel that I learned so much from her and feel grateful to have been a part of the Kazwear family. Luci, your mother was so proud of you. Her eyes would absolutely sparkle whenever she spoke of you. I hope that gives you some measure of peace. Mike, you and Cathy were so incredibly supportive when I lost my father and I want you to know that I am thinking of you. Embrace your memories and allow yourself to grieve, even now, so many months later. Remember that Cathy is never truly gone because she lives in each and every person that she touched.
(Donated to London Health Sciences Foundation - Cancer Centre)
(Donated to London Health Sciences Foundation - Cancer Centre)
(Donated to London Health Sciences Foundation - Cancer Centre)
(Donated to London Health Sciences Foundation - Cancer Centre)
(Donated to London Health Sciences Foundation - Cancer Centre)
(Donated to London Health Sciences Foundation - Cancer Centre)
(Donated to London Health Sciences Foundation - Cancer Centre)
(Donated to London Health Sciences Foundation - Cancer Centre)
(Donated to London Health Sciences Foundation - Cancer Centre)
Dearest Michel and Lucianne - our deepest sympathies. We don't have the words to express our sorrow, but please know that you and Cathy are in our hearts and in our prayers. Louisa (Maalouf) and Milad Zoorob
Dear Misho and Lucianne, We would like to extend our deepest condolences to you. I know there are no words to help ease your pain and I know that there has been great distance between us. But this doesn't lessen my sorrow nor my sincerest sympathies to you. We all experience love and we all experience loss and during your time of grief and sadness just know that my heart is filled with all the prayer, hope and confidence that your sadness will be short lived and in its place will the the joyous memories, the love and the light that we all know Cathy leaves for you. Uncle Elias & Taunte Soumaya, Nabil & Mary, Katy & Steve and your entire families; I wish you all my sincerest prayers and condolences. I know, as a family, you are all very close and through this close bond I wish your peace of mind and heart comes easily and that your memories of and love for Cathy shines for you for another hundred lifetimes. Janice Maalouf-Aguilera
Mike and Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time in your lives. Keep the memories of Cathy close to your Hearts. We believe that there are Angels Amoung Us, and Cathy will be leading the way. Respectfully, Jerry and Brenda Mulligan
Mike:All of us at Speedo Canada extend our deepest sympathy to you and your family. You and Cathy have been far more than just customers. We have lost one of our friends. Andy,Tasha,Erica and Rita
Lucy & Mike our hearts are broken. I went to pick Peyton up at Notre Dame and tears fell as I recalled numerous chats and chuckles in the big white truck while we waiting for Lucy and Nolan to emerg from school. We hope you find peace in knowing she was loved by everyone (kids , parents and teachers) at the school. She went out of her way, every chance she could to make our lives and better. All of the laughs we had at school council meetings, school dances, bingos, grade 8 graduation and the JLC have created fantastic memories of Cathys life and remind me of what a great Mom Lucy has lost! She truly lives on through Lucy , who is juat as loved at the school and missed now that she is at STA. Cathy's life leaves a wonderful example to all of us on how to treat others. I will think of her often and my memories of Cathy always bring a smile to my face. Love you Cathy...Debi
Mike and Luci... I don't know what to say, sorry just isn't enough. Cathy meant so much to me and I am blessed to have known her. Over the years she became more than a boss, she was a role model, support system and confidant. She touched the lives of so many people and will always hold such a special place in my heart. Rest in Peace Cathy xo
We were very saddened to hear of Cathy's passing. Alex and I remembered the fashion show at Notre Dame, when Cathy brought the greatest outfits for the kids to model. She always made be feel welcomed and comfortable at KazWear. She was a wonderful lady. God bless you during this very difficult and sad time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. The Petersens Hi Luci: I am very sorry for the loss of your mom. I just want to say that I am here for you and can help you in any way! You are an amazing person. I am so glad to be at STA back with good friends from Notre dame like you. My thoughts and prayers are with you through this tough time. Love Alex
Mike and Lucy, my deepest of sympathy goes out to both of you and your families. Cathy was a wonderful woman, and I know that she touched the lives of many. My thoughts are with all of you at this saddest of times.
Dear Mike and Luci. There's not much that I can say that it hasn't been said about what a wonderful person Cathy was...so many memories: coffees in the morning for the entire staff, Christmas music, Elvis, and so many laughs... She has taught me something that I will never forget: Be happy!!! Live your life!!!! She will be in my heart as my boss, my friend and so many times as my second mom. Luv, Mily
Dear Mike, Luci and you families I was so saddened to hear about Cathy. She was such a wonderful and caring lady. I was truly blessed for being able to work with her and having the chance to know her. I will never forget those quick music changes when she stepped on the floor or the quick looks you and me would get Luci when we were working together. Thinking about you both during this time. Luv Lauren
Mike and Luci... Words can not express the sorrow I feel for you at this time. Cathy will be remembered as an amazingly strong and successful woman with a great love for her family. Im glad she feels no pain anymore and I hope that helps to ease the pain you feel now. Im glad I had the chance to be a part of the Kazwear family for as long as I did. She'll be your biggest fan just rooting from Heaven! GO BEARS GO! Goodbye Cathy!
Life as we all knew it changed Oct 19th and it will never be the same. The loss of Cathy for so many family and friends is overwhelming. Mike and Lucianne I can only imagine the pain that you are feeling and hope that with the help of all of us you will see your way through this time of saddness. What we have once enjoyed we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us. Lucianne, your mother was the strongest women I knew and that in its self will help you. She left you her strength and her courage to guide you through times like this. Mike, there is a tough road ahead , but we know Cathy is telling you to get going and we are all there is help you along. I knew from the first day I met Cathy that she was a person that I hoped would become a part of my life. I have learned so much from her and with her help have become a stronger person . I will always continue to think through situations (personnal and bussiness) , asking myself how Cathy would deal with it? what would Cathy do or say? For me Cathy will be with me forever.....
Words do not express my sadness today.Sympathy for Mike,Lucianne the Abouatallah and McNicol familys is deep deep in my heart.Cathy who will be truely missed by those who knew and loved can never be forgotten as long as the radio plays Elvis,the Bears play football and we put on swimsuits to go to the beach she will be there
We are so saddened to hear of Cathy's passing. I so wish I could have been able to see her one last time.... I know in her heart that she was as strong as she could be and did her best to beat this. But God has different plans for a person of her strength. She will be so greatly missed and I sure hope that if we are able to help with anything at all Mike that you give us a call. I am saddened that we will not be at the service due to other committments... Please know our prayers and thoughts are with all of you at this time... Larry and Judy
Mike & Luci my deepest sympathy. Cathy has touched so many lives including my own. Her talks with me,the smell of her perfume,her love of Elvis ,I'll never forget; for she has left footprints in the sand...... Love you Cathy, thank you for being a part of my life
Our deepest sympathy. Our prayers are with you and your families. Cathy was a precious gift from God above, so much beauty, grace and love. She touched everyone's hearts that ever had the privilege of knowing Cathy. She has touched my life in precious ways with her friendship; she will always be in my heart. Love Tracy
Dearest Mike and Lucy Words cannot express our deep sorrow on losing Cathy. Our business together led us to become friends for which we are forever grateful. Such a sparkle she always was and she will be remembered for. I loved her dearly as I do you and Lucy. You have been a tremendous strength to Cathy Mike and it is not an easy road to be strong as I well know. Our prayers are with you all now and we thank God for the priviledge of being even a small part of Cathy's life. Cathy was a very courageous and gracious person and has made all our lives richer for knowing her. I will see you Saturday. Love as always Rita Roy and boys
Mike and Lucy, Our hearts go out to you at this difficult time. We were so lucky to have known what a wonderful woman Cathy was. She stands out as a generous, funny, lovely soul who will be missed by everyone in the Notre Dame Community. We wish you peace, with Godspeed. All our love, Andrew, Audrey, Isaak, Jake and Sam.
To: Mike, Luci and family, So very sorry for your loss. Cathy was a wonderful, caring and compassionate person who inspired others to do their best with grace and dignity. She will be greatly missed by all who had the great fortune to know her. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Diana
Dearest Mike Bob & I were so extremely saddened to hear that Cathy had passed away. She did her very best to fight that beast..... God does take the best. We know first hand. We were grateful that she got to see your beautiful new building in Grand Bend. I'm hoping she got to spend some special times with You, Lucianne, family and dear friends there this summer. My God's Grace bring you peace and strength to go on. Our very sincere condolences Kim & Bob Case
Dear Mike, Lucianne and family, Please accept our deepest condolences. There are no words to describe how sorry we are for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time and may the sorrow you feel in your heart lighten by the love that surrounds you. Cathy will never be forgotten and will always be in our hearts. Love Pauline, Kristen & Ashley
Dear Mike and Lucianne: Please accept our deepest condolences for the loss of your beautiful wife and loving mother. Our times spent with Cathy at the Finan swim school when all of childen were very little are times we fondly remember. Cathy, always full of fun and love for the light of her life, Lucianne. She is a treasure that will be missed. Our love and prayers are with both of you and your family. Thinking of you, Mark, Lori, Blake, Brock and Bennett
Dear Mike and Lucianne; All our thoughts and prayers are with you. Connor and I offer a small Irish prayer. When we lose someone we love it seems that time stands still. What moves through us is a silence... a quiet sadness... A longing for one more day... one more word... one more touch... We may not understand why you left this earth so soon, or why you left before we were ready to say good-bye, but little by little, we begin to remember not just that you died, but that you lived. And that your life gave us memories too beautiful to forget. We will see you again some day, in a heavenly place where there is no parting. A place where there are no words that mean good-bye. Cathy will indeed be missed and remembered!
Mike, Lucy, and family Words cannot begin to express our sadness and no words are strong enough to help you through this time. Cathy was always such a kind happy person and I know that she is there still smiling watching over you now. Losing someone is never easy but knowing that they will always be remembered and loved will help you make it through each day. Remember to celebrate her life, keep her close to your heart and share your memories often. Love always Kenny, Tanya and Hailey xoxox
Mike, Lucy, Bev, Jackie, John, and Steve. It was always a good day to see Cathy walk through the door at Steve's or the Box Plant. Always an extra lift in the room, no matter how miserable the day. She lifted the spirits of us all. Cathy's great energy will always be there for everyone who was fortunate enough to know her. My most sincere condolences Hebbs
Mike, Lucy and family I am so sorry to hear about Cathy. She was a lady with many inspiring words. We all have many memories of Cathy and I am sure the store will be shared in the future. Cathy will be missed by many but never forgotten. Mike and Lucy you will always have an angel looking over your shoulder. My sincere condolences to the family.
Mike, Lucy We are so very sorry for your loss and so many others loss. Our thoughts are with you both and your families. Cathy touched so many lives. We used to laugh about the color of her nail polish, all was good if she thought you and Lucy would like it. I have not seen Cathy for awhile, Think about her often and will continue to do so. She will be missed bye all whom she has touched. Our sincere condolences.
Mike & Family Our prayers are with you as you say goodbye to Cathy. Cathy is at peace now and she will be smiling at you from the heavens. She was a great person, always smiling and always pleasant. She loved her sweets. Mike Jaz
Dear Mike and Lucianne, My deepest condolences to you and your entire family. Times like these are the hardest but they define who we are. It is okay to be sad, it is okay to cry, it is okay to lean on the shoulders of others for support. I will always remember Cathy as a fun and loving person who had nothing but hope and determination in her eyes. Plus, she had style, everytime I saw her she had a new hand bag which I always envyed. She was a great person and I loved working with her. She will always be in my heart. Do not stand at my grave and weep I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn rain. When you awaken in the morning's hush I am the swift uplifting rush Of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry; I am not there, I did not die. In sympathy, Nicole Smith (and the entire Smith family)
Michel, Lucianne, Aunt Jackie, Uncle Bev, John, Steve and Abouatallah Family. Words cannot express our deep sorrow on losing Cathy. She was such a special person in so many ways to so many people. May you all gather strength from the love and comfort that surounds you now and forever. Love always, Cheryl & Robin, Wayne & Amy God saw you getting tired, When a cure was not to be. So He wrapped his arms around you, and whispered, "Come to me". You didn't deserve what you went through, So He gave you rest. God's garden must be beautiful, He only takes the best And when I saw you sleeping, So peaceful and free from pain I could not wish you back To suffer that again. God bless you Cathy.
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