Alexander Harvey Aitken
December 6, 2021
1933 – 2021
It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Alexander Harvey Aitken on Monday, December 6, 2021, at the age of 88, with his wife and children by his side, at LHSC – University Hospital. Beloved husband of 65 years to Connie (Arnold). Loving father to his children, Charlene, Colleen (Roland) and Dr. Stewart Aitken. Alex was a devoted and very special grandfather to Adam, Arielle, Cerena, Carlin and Vienna. He was predeceased by his parents, Robert and Catherine; his brothers, John and Robert; and his sister, Mary Ward. He will be lovingly remembered by his sister, Cathy Dickerson; brother-in-law, Wally Arnold (Bonnie); and sister-in-law, Debra McLennan.
He will be missed by many nieces, nephews, neighbours and friends. Alex grew up in Windsor, Ontario. He attended Patterson Collegiate where he met his wife, Connie. They married 5 years later and called Windsor their home where they raised their three children. Alex graduated from the University of Windsor with a Bachelor of Science degree being bestowed two gold medals for his outstanding academic achievement. Alex went on to become a high school teacher and then a principal of several high schools working for the Windsor Board of Education. He took much pride working with young people and seeing them flourish. Alex was very involved in his children’s and grandchildren’s lives. He had a great passion for sports. He coached minor travel team hockey and baseball. He never missed their swimming meets, dancing competitions, track and field meets or golf tournaments. He was a great coach and mentor. Alex lived life like an adventure. He was full of strength and lived it his own way. His backyard was his oasis where he loved to putter around and garden. Over the years, Alex and Connie loved to travel and visited England, Scotland, Australia, China and many other parts of the world. He loved to talk and entertain, hosting many family events. Anyone that knew him will never forget his jovial laugh. Alex lived life to the fullest. He will be greatly missed by everyone who knew him. Cremation has already occurred. There will be a private family service at Greenlawn Memorial Gardens in Oldcastle, Ontario in the spring. In lieu of flowers, those wishing to make a donation in memory of Alex are asked to consider The Hospice of Windsor Essex County, London Health Sciences Foundation or a charity of your choice.
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Sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathy to you Connie and your family, Peter and Julie Erdelyan
Connie, I was so sorry to read of Alex's passing. I think of you every time I drive by your old house on Bouffard. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
This fine man was my grade ten Science Teacher and then later my Vice Principal. He was fair and challenging, someone you could count on. I recall his smile after all these years! I am sure he knew how well he was liked and respected but I wanted to let you, his family and his friends, know how special he was!
My deepest sympathy to the Aitken family. Alex was a gentlemen and inspiring leader. I had the privilege of working with him at Centennial Secondary School 1979-1986. May he rest in peace!
I had the privilege to work with Alex as his secretary at Kennedy C. I. He was one of the nicest principals that I had ever worked for through the years. Alex always treated everyone with respect and dignity. He will be missed and fondly remembered. My deepest condolences to Connie and family. Rest in peace Alex.
My deepest condolences to the Aitkin family. There are many happy memories of Mr. Aitkin coaching hockey with my dad. Keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers. Sherri (Johnston) Peltier My deepest condolences to the Aitkin family. Sheila Johnston
My heart felt condolences to the Aitken family. We have all had a handful of teachers who have left an indelible impression on us. Mr. Aitken was such a one for me. Over the course of my teaching career I would often be reminded of the example Mr. Aitken left me with as a student at Herman Collegiate I was a better man and teacher for the experience.
From what everybody tells me, Alex was a fine man. The confirmation would be in the three children whom I was privileged to know and teach at Sandwich Secondary. My condolences to Stuart, Charlene and Colleen as well as to Mrs. Aitken who can be very proud of her children.
My deepest sympathies and condolences to the family.
Sincere condolences to the Aiken family. Alex was one of my most inspirational teachers at Herman High, and I got to work with him when I taught with the Windsor Board. A great sense of humour and a great leader. RIP.
We will all miss you Rob, Mary Catherine and Russell. Rob and Mary Catherine remember you from when we lived in Michigan and came to Windsor to see family. Russell was to young to remember you but he has been old about you. We will think of you often. Love you sister Cathy in Wyoming
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My deepest sympathy to Connie and the Aitken family. May your wonderful memories of Alex comfort you in the days ahead. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers and remember the good times spent in our neighbourhood.
~ Shelly (Moore) St. Louis