Julia Ann Denise Woelfle

The other day I was thinking how precious life is. How at any fleeting moment our lives can be swept away by His Angels and then I received the unbeknownst news. I was speechless, heartbroken, and blank all at the same time. I couldn't believe my ears and thought I was dreaming but the bitter reality was I wasn't and the news was the saddest I could recall and now the reality hit me... I just lost my beautiful Cousin Julia. My knees became weak, they buckled, and not until now (Oct. 25th) have I mustered the emotional strength to write you my dear Cousin. I just want to let you know I will deeply miss you and although my heart wrenches writing this I hope you will somehow see this tribute to you that I posted in your honour on my Facebook profile and now copied and pasted here in your memory. Personal Diary Note... (I usually don't post my private life on Facebook not unless it is to do with the industry or a post of positive empowerment but today is a little different and I feel that sometimes (like now) it's good to release for my own sanity.) Today the rollercoaster of life we must ride. Some face life face on, while others run and hide. I am so heartbroken and only a couple of close friends I have shared my sorrow. But on this day I pray for a much better tomorrow. I thank those friends for their shoulders. You are my life pillars as strong as boulders. Much love I send to you all with the share of condolences through a simple call. You held me up when I was about to fall. I lost my cousin Julie no more than eight months after her Father (my Uncle) had past. You would think life would hand us a better card hand that would last. So hard is life and what it means. But when it comes to His calling, we must accept it it seems. Julia you were far too young to leave us now. But why you my beautiful Cousin and how? 44 years too young, too vibrant with so much life to give. So many more I have hoped you would have lived. Some say love can never tear one apart but I know that it was your Father, my Uncle Steve, his little "Sweet Pea" that left us with a broken heart. No one could see it and no one would dare, to feel your sorrow and seen how much you care. Now I realize the pain deep inside that would not cease and I hope from my heart to yours that you rest with comfort and with peace. Julia, I just want you to know that on this day and everyday I will remember how much beauty and joy you brought to all of our lives. You are an ‪#‎EarthAngel‬ that has now flown to the Heavenly skies. God Bless you until we meet again... I will love you and miss you. Much Love & Rest Peacefully - Cousin Steve (heart emoticon) Brian, Noah, Evan, Aunt Phyllis, Monty, Jeff, and extended family I send my deepest heartfelt condolences to you all. #GodBless †

Brian I want to express my heartfelt sorrow for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family at this profoundly difficult time.

Noah and Evan, I am so deeply saddened to hear of the sudden passing of your mother. I know you were both her greatest joy and gift. May your memories of her live on and be cherished in your hearts forever. No more amazing blessing is it to be a mother. She will always be watching over you and be ever so proud of you both. My prayers and thoughts are with you!

Brian, Noah and Evan, I want to express my sympathy in this very difficult time for you and all your family. I know Julia was a wonderful wife, Mom and a cherished daughter and daughter-in-law!. In days ahead you will have comfort in all the wonderful memories you have. My thoughts are with you.

My Deepest sympathies to you and the Boy's Brian, We are all thinking of you during this very difficult time and we will be there for you and your family when ever the time comes.

Noah and Evan, I was so sad to read of the sudden passing of your mother and wanted to express my deepest sympathies. My thoughts are with you. Ganbatte ne. Take care. Ms. Robinson

Dear Brian and family. Words can not convey how deeply sorry I am to hear of your loss. Hugs and prayers for all of you in this time of sorrow.

Our condolences to the Woelfle family on this tragic loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Words cannot express our emotions over this loss. With deepest sympathy from Mark Sr., Deb, Mark Jr., and Thomas.

Dear Brian, Noah, Evan, family & friends. My heart goes out to all of you with the loss of your loving Julia. The painful sudden loss of your beautiful wife, Mom, daughter is unimaginable. Please know that I/we are here for you in any way we can help. We will miss Julia's happy attitude and smiling face :).

My Deepest sympathies to Brian, Noah, Evan, Mrs Molner and Jeff. My heart is broken. I am still in shock. This was not suppose to happen until we were old and gray and sitting on your porch in rocking chairs. Julia and I have been best friends for 35 + years. Brian, you and Julia were definitely soul mates. Your love for each other was obvious to anyone. Noah and Evan your mom so proud of you both and talked about you all the time. Julia was an amazing woman and anyone who knew her loved her. I have so many wonderful memories that I will be holding near and dear to my heart. You will always be my Julie and I will always be your Laur I love you

Our heart felt sympathies Brian, Noah and Evan. Such a sudden loss. I know it will be difficult coming to grips with the events, but time determines we must soldier on. Draw strength from family and friends.

The love of a mother for her children is a bond that death itself cannot sever. She will be your guide and guardian now. Feel her love and watch for signs. She will everywhere.

As a friend and mother I know The love of a mother for her children is a bond that death itself cannot sever. An Angel, will come from the dark clouds and bring sunshine. Those around you will find new happiness Butterflies will bring a new sense of warmth and cover you with their Open wings with love. She will be your guide and guardian now. Feel her love and watch for signs. She will be everywhere Sharing a glare as she knows in her heart a cloud of pillows fell upon her. Her love will always be with you waiting to be together as she watch's over. You will never forget those memories, always remember.

(Donated to London Humane Society)

(Donated to London Humane Society)

(Donated to London Humane Society)

(Donated to London Humane Society)

Brian, I cannot express enough the shock and sadness that I have for you and your entire family. This is a tragedy that no one should have to face. My heart goes out to you Brian and especially the kids. You're in my thoughts Julia.

To Brian, Noah & Evan and also to Julia's mother, brothers and to the extended family and friends, Please accept our deepest sympathy. Myself and my husband Joe were extremely saddened when we heard of Julia's passing. Julia was a really good friend to me, and we had a lot of fun over the years at LPS. She was a great sounding board and had a very compassionate ear on many occasions in my life, I will never forget some of the kind and caring things that she has done for me. She talked all the time about how much she loved her family, I always admired her deep loyalty, friendship and love that she had with you Brian and the boys were her greatest pride. I was always happy that she had such loving people in her life, you and the boys and also her mother and her best friend too, I knew she deserved that. Julia was a very hard worker and took extreme pride in her work. I was always in awe of her dedication to learning and becoming great at whatever new job position she wanted to try. All of the staff that knew Julia when she worked at the courthouse (this included multiple offices) have also expressed deepest sympathy and were very saddened to hear of her passing. Not everyone got a chance to know Julia the way I did, I am happy that she trusted in me as a friend . I will really miss her and I wish that her life had been longer. I know that one of her greatest wishes would be for you to pull together as a family and find a way to live a great life and thrive in her honour, even though right now, you are devastated. It will take time and no doubt be a tough go. I believe that Julia will be there in spirit, rooting for all of you, trying to send you her love and watch over you. We will be thinking of you and the whole family and hoping that healing and love will guide you through. Sincerely, Erica (and Joe) Fitzsimmons

Dear Phylis, Jeff, and Monty, My heart aches for all of you. It is my prayer that God may hold you in his care and grant you peace. We ask why but there is consolation Julia is safe in the arms of Jesus.. Thinking of you all, with love, at this very sad time. You are all in our prayers and we are here for you. Love, Aunt Ilona and Cousin Joey

Dear Brian, Noh, and Evan, So sorry to hear of the passing of your wife, mother, and my niece Julia. Julia was a beautiful person and I remember her as such a sweet child. old on to all of the precious memories. May God give you all peace. Our prayers are with you. Love, Aunt Ilona and Cousin Joey

Brian,,Noah and Evan We are all very sorry to hear of the passing of your wife and mom. She will always be a part of you and protecting you from above. Sending you strength in the days and months to come. Deb,Dave,Alyssa,Jordan and Cole

Brian, Noah and Evan, Ann and I are so sad to hear of Julia's passing. Finding the right words to express our sympathy to you is difficult. Just know that as co-workers, neighbours and friends we are here for you. Please know that we are thinking of you as the days pass - hoping your memories of Julia in time, will bring smiles through the sadness. Mark & Ann Walton

Brian, my deepest condolences to you and your family on the loss of Julia. Your friends and co-workers at the LPS are here to support you in any way possible.

May the many condolences you receive bring you some comfort in this very difficult time. People at school are saddened by your lost. Should Evan or Noah need anything they can see me any time for a visit. Sincerely, Mrs. Caldwell

Myself, and my staff at the Little Red Roaster (London Provincial Courthouse) send our deepest sympathies and condolences. Julia was a very regular customer, and I enjoyed my daily interactions with her very much! You are all in our thoughts and prayers as you shoulder eachother through this difficult time. Deepest sympathies.

Dear Brian, Noah & Evan our deepest condolences reach out to you and your family. Julia was a caring wife and mother proud of her two sons. She was a caring daughter who was their for her mother and a loving sister to Jeff. Julia's memory will be carried close in everyone's heart. DeMelo Family

Our Grade 10 Art class is thinking of you during this difficult time. We are all here for you if you need anything. Sincerely, Mrs. Briscoe

I did not know Julia but wanted to express my sincere condolences on your sad loss. Losing one so very young is especially unfair and perhaps in time this promise will bring a measure of comfort, John 5:28,29 Deepest sympathies to you all

Our deepest sympathy Phyllis and family. Such terrible news. Our prayers are with you.

On behalf of David and I, we want to offer our sincere condolences to Brian, Noah, Evan and the entire family. Words cannot express how saddened we were to hear of Julia's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this extremely difficult time.

We wanted to express our deepest sympathies to you Brian and your children, as well as Julia's whole family. Losing someone so unexpected like this makes you look at life as the precious gift it is. You have been in our thoughts. Please let us know if we can do anything for you.

Dear Phyllis, Jeff, Brian, Evan, Noah, and family, Please accept our heartfelt condolences at this time. I've known Julia since I've known Jeff, for well over 30 years. Of course back then, she was "just" the little sister, so what could you say! Well, it turns out I could say a lot. She was a loving mother, and a good mother. That much I know from the little time I've spent with her boys. She was a wonderful wife, whom Brian will always cherish. She was a daughter one could only hope to have. Phyllis, I am so sorry for you loss. Steve, please give her the hug that I know you will, and that she deserves. Jeff, I am also very sorry for your loss. I know you will all hold her dear in your heart. Sometimes that's all we have, but it can go a long way. And we all need to cherish those around us now. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Joel Atance

My deepest sympathies. I am in pure disbelief to be writing this right now. I was fortunate to have the chance to talk with Julia last Friday for a great length of time and feel truly blessed to have had that time. We are always so busy in our lives and need to stop and press the pause button once in a while. Julia was the kind of lady that you couldn't help but want to pause for and I always had to say "Ok now I really have to go Jules"! And always wished I had more time to chat. But time stood still on Friday. It was just her and I talking about the older days at the station and reminiscing about our boys and how fast they are growing. Julia's family and friends were her world. Evan and Noah your Mom is your biggest fan. Her smile and attitude was always so refreshing and I miss her ever so much already. One of the most beautiful people I have ever had the pleasure and honour of knowing. She will be greatly missed and never forgotten. Julia thank-you for the laughter, the kindness and the friendship. Keep rockin' it girl! Brian, Noah, Evan and family you are all in my thoughts and prayers during this unimaginable time.