Shirley Margaret Bender
October 11, 2012
Peacefully at Middlesex Terrace, Delaware, on Thursday, October 11, 2012 in her 90th year. Beloved wife of the late Desmond Bender (1979). Loving Mom of Catherine Vanden Berghe (Pierre Pronovost) of London and mother-in-law of Peter Dillman of London. Predeceased by her cherished children, Ellen Dillman (2009) and Gordon Bender (1953). Dear Nana of Kara (Casey) McKeown, Jason (Julie) Dillman and Robin (Michael) Hrib and Great-Nana of Chloe, Caleb, Elizabeth, Ashley, Michael Jr., Benjamin and Danielle. Loving sister of John “Jack” (Marie) Crawford of Parry Sound and the late Jim Crawford and Dorothy Maich. Visitation will be held at WESTVIEW FUNERAL CHAPEL, 709 Wonderland Road North, London, on Sunday from 2:00-4:00 and 7:00-9:00 p.m. The Funeral Mass will be celebrated at Holy Family Parish, 777 Valetta Street, London, on Monday, October 15, 2012 at 10:00 a.m. Private interment will be held at Mount Hope Cemetery, Toronto. Those wishing to make a donation in memory of Shirley are asked to consider the Heart and Stroke Foundation of Ontario or the Canadian Cancer Society.
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Very sorry to hear about Nanna she was a Lovely Lady,our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time. Dennis & Shirley Dickson:
Many fond memories of "Shirl and Bud" when I was growing up. They were always fun and always had time.
My second mom. You have known me since I was 10 years old, all of us living on Walter Ave. I remember with great fondness spending many a day at Mr. and Mrs. B's home. You are in glory now Mrs. B. Say hello to everyone! Luv ya! Lynda. To the Dillman, McKeown, Pronovost and Hrib families: Know how very sorry I am for the loss of Mrs. B. I will miss her terribly. Love to you all, Lyn. To Uncle Jack and Aunt Marie: My heart felt condolences to you. Lynda
DearKatie, Kara, Jay and families, It is with heartfelt sorrow, we send our messages of love and condolences. Shirl and Bud were mom and dad's besties, growing up together and living together on more than one occasion. Many great times and so many memories to cherish. I find peace in knowing they are all truly united with each other again, and this time forever.
Shirley was a beautiful person. She had to be to put up with my dad ;) May all the memories and precious moments that you spent together bring you joy and comfort during this difficult time. Love to all Liana
Many fond memories of "Nana" Bender while growing up; she was a wonderful lady. We'd like to extend our deepest sympathies to the family at this difficult time. Our hearts are with you all.
Our love and sympathies to your family at this time. Shirley was a wonderful lady. We had many good times together and will miss her. She was a good friend to Dad, and we always appreciated her presence in his life.
I have such good memories of spending time at Christmas and family birthdays with Nana Bender growing up. I often think about those times and what a special lady she was. I am very sad to hear of your loss and wish I knew what to say to make it easier, unfortunately, I do not. We will be thinking about you and wishing you the best in these difficult times. Fortunately, we will carry the memories of her love and friendship on forever.
(Donated to Canadian Cancer Society)
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You were a real firecracker Shirl! I will miss your sharp wit. To the whole family, my thoughts are with you...lots of Love Andrea
~ Andrea Bennett