Patricia Waye (nee Plumb)
August 24, 2010
WAYE (nee Plumb), Patricia (Pat, Trish) – In her 65th year died peacefully at home on Tuesday, August 24th, 2010 with her loving family by her side. Trish was a beautiful gift to all and touched so many lives with love, kindness, and laughter. She nursed in the Maternity Newborn Unit at St. Joseph’s Health Care Center for over 30 years, where she held many newborn babies in her loving arms during that time. She guided many new mothers as they journeyed into the wonderful world of motherhood. Predeceased by her mother, Margaret Plumb (July 7th, 2010) and her father George Plumb (Feb 25th, 1996). Loving wife of Bill Waye. Cherished mother/mother-in-law of Bill & Dianne Waye and Jeff & Anne-Marie Bergeron-Waye. Loving and fun grandma to Emma & Cameron, and soon to arrive Eleonore. Deeply loved and remembered by sisters, brothers, spouses Bob & Carole Plumb, Liz & Don Mills, Mike & Jettie Plumb, Fran Plumb and Stephen Thomson, and Marg & Peter Vallee. Fondly remembered by aunt and uncle Gerald & Irene Ferguson, Aunt Thelma Ferguson, the Waye’s Bonnie, Perry, Ross, Angus, Kathy, Lynn, Faye, George and spouses, several nieces, nephews, cousins, special friends, and neighbors. Trish loved spending time with her family, long time friends Joanne & Bill Fisher, The Golden Girls, The Scrapbooking Gals, and the Movie Gals, amongst others. Trish lived a full life and her favorite saying was “Live, Love, and Laugh”. She fought her battle with cancer living every moment, a day at a time with dignity while continuing to love deeply and laugh often. Trish you will be embraced by Mom & Dad. We will continue to “live in the moment” and celebrate your memory and life. The world was a better place because of your presence. Stay beautiful and rest gently. Special thanks to the VON Palliative Care Team (PJ, Jen, and Becky) and the Chemo Unit at LRCP for their kindness and compassion. Apologies to anyone who may have been missed. There’s really not enough print to list everyone who’s life was touched by her. A memorial service will be held at the Westview Funeral Chapel, 709 Wonderland Road North, London, on Thursday August 26th, 2010 at 7:00 p.m. Donations may be made to the Canadian Cancer Society, and/or Neonatal Unit, St Joseph’s Heath Care Center. Online condolences available at >www.westviewfuneralchapel.com
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To Pat's Family, I was so lucky to have met and worked with Pat on the Post Partum unit. She truly had the biggest heart of gold and treated everyone she met like she was an angel walking amongst us. Pat lived life as if she drew from a thousand lives and their experiences; always kind, gentle, with a wicked sense of humour and a beautiful smile. I was lucky to get to scrapbook with her when she started to make her first scrapbook for Emma. She told wonderful stories about Emma and Cameron as she worked on their books. She loved her family with all her heart as she laughed and talked about all of you as she created those pages for her grandchildren. Pat was so excited to tell us about Jeff and Anne Marie expecting and your very first thought for a name! I would like to express my deepest condolences to Pat's family and friends. It is with profound sadness we say good bye to such an amazing person. Sincerely Cheryl Collings
Our deepest symathy goes out to the family at this time. May her motto of Live, Love and Laugh help you as you travel this painful journey. Gary and Madge; Scott and Marie; Jeff and Crystal; Jamie and Kristin.
My sincere sympathy to Pat's family.Working with Pat for many years was a great experience. She was compassionate and gentle and I can still hear her giggle. Our scrapbook family had lots of fun which we will remember for ever. We say goodbye with sadness in our heart. Beth Smith
Pat was a dear and beautiful friend. My life has been so blessed to have known her. Pat could light up a Christmas tree with her smile. I have only known Pat for a short while, but OH......... how she touched my life in a big way. I will miss her dearly, and the time we spend together will always be treasured. See you up in heaven some day Pat. Love Always Eulene
Dear Bill, Many moons ago when you first arrived in London from the shores of Nova Scotia our paths crossed as we boarded in the same household. Although I have not seen you for a few years and have never met Trish the obituaries provide a clear description of the angelic person she was. Please accept our condolences.
I'm glad I had the chance to know and work with Pat. She was an amazing person and will be sorely missed. I will miss her laugh and her stories. My thoughts and prayers to Pat's family.
To Pat's Family, I was so lucky to have met and worked with Pat on the Post Partum unit. She truly had the biggest heart of gold and treated everyone she met like she was an angel walking amongst us. Pat lived life as if she drew from a thousand lives and their experiences; always kind, gentle, with a wicked sense of humour and a beautiful smile. I was lucky to get to scrapbook with her when she started to make her first scrapbook for Emma. She told wonderful stories about Emma and Cameron as she worked on their books. She loved her family with all her heart as she laughed and talked about all of you as she created those pages for her grandchildren. Pat was so excited to tell us about Jeff and Anne Marie expecting and your very first thought for a name! I would like to express my deepest condolences to Pat's family and friends. It is with profound sadness we say good bye to such an amazing person. Sincerely Cheryl Collings
To Bill and Bill Jr. and the rest of the family, my deepest sympathy on your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to the both of you and may you be strong through these times and the road ahead. Your wife and mother by most accounts seems like an angel sent to earth to help those that needed it most. You were blessed with having her with you and those that needed her services were blessed to have her help them. Again my deepest sympathy on your loss. Brian Ramsey
Bill & Family: We are very sad to hear of the loss of Pat. Pat was one of the very first people to ever hold my daughter Jenna, when she was born at St.Joseph's hospital. Later in life, our paths crossed again - both living in the Westmount area. Pat will always be remembered as a fun loving, happy and wonderful person. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. Sincerely, Cindy - Jenna, and Andrew Denstedt
Over the last 6 years on Easter Weekend, a couple of dozen washed up and aging female and male hockey players from across the country, and playing out of Montreal, were exposed to the greatness that was Pat Waye. We were introduced to Pat and Bill through their son Jeff who had assembled our squad in Montreal, with the aim of playing at the Exclaim Cup, held annually in Toronto at Easter. Bill became a prominent member of our team each year alongside Jeff, while Pat, from the start, was our number one fan and booster. She was with us through the many lows (the dreadful first year) and the highest highs (the championship from three years ago). Armed with a perpetual smile, a gentle soul, and kind words of encouragement, she and Bill became fixtures for all of us every year. She lit up the stands and our hearts, and will sorely be missed.
Truly sorry to hear about your loss. Our hearts and thoughts are with you and your family at this time. Cherish your memories for there is a special place in heaven for mothers.
We share the family's loss of such a beloved sister. I will always hold the childhood memories of cousins getting together at Christmas holidays and going to the cottage. Thank you Trish for being a part of our lives. May God hold you in the Palm of His Hand. Love Heather & Klaus
My "big sis" will be deeply missed. I enjoyed our individual times over the years and times with the "4 sisters". I was especially pleased that I was able to be there for Trish & Bill during her last days and hours in the home and it was nice to meet the "Waye sisters". Thanks to Aunt Trish from Nick and Selina for all that she did for them over the years. Mom, Dad and angels above are watching over you, dear Sister! Love ya, Fran, Nick, Selina & Stephen
We are thankful for having such a great aunt in our lives. She was an inspiration to us in many ways with her kindness and thoughtfulness. We will truly miss you, Aunt Trish. Lots of love, Selina & Nick, XO
To the Waye and Plumb families: Pat truly was a very special person who touched everyone she met. Her kindness, gentleness and soft spirit made an impact on me. I am a better person for knowing her and having the privledge of working with her. She will be missed. With sympathy Debbie Pangborn
It is with a very heavy heart that your Son/Brother goes into cookie season this year when I have lost two of my biggest supporters of the season. Thank you both for the support that you gave Jettie and I over the years. I will prevail with LIVE, LOVE AND LAUGH through the whole season. For you both I have come up with a couple of promo's that will be in place in honor of you. Love you Mom and Trish, rest peacefully. Love always and forever. Mike
(Donated to Canadian Cancer Society)
(Donated to Canadian Cancer Society)
(Donated to Camp Trillium, Waterford, On, Camp for children with cancer .)
(Donated to Canadian Cancer Society)
(Donated to Canadian Cancer Society)
(Donated to Canadian Cancer Society)
(Donated to Canadian Cancer Society)
To Jeff and the whole Waye Family, I am so sorry for your loss. Pat was such a great woman. I have very fond memories of talking and laughing with her, years ago when Jeff and I were in high school, and again at Jeff and Anne-Marie's wedding. I know how important she was to your whole family and always will be. You're all so fortunate to have had her in your lives. I wish you all the strength and courage to celebrate such an amazing life and also in mourning your loss. My thoughts are with you all in these tough times. Love, Jane
I had the wonderful experience and pleasure of working with Pat. I will miss her infectious smile. She will be remembered with the kindest thoughts.
I only knew Pat a short time but knew from the day that I met her what a warm and loving person she was. Pat offered me much support and compassion in a time of need which shows just how wonderful she truly was. I cannot even imagine how much she will be missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to Pat's family and all of those who were touched by her life.
Bill, Billy, Jeff and families, It is with a heavy heart that we express deepest condolences to you. Pat was truly an angel on earth....her compassion, humour and friendship are known by many. We have so many good and funny memories of Pat that will help us through this difficult time. Your memories of "Pat"- your wife, Mom, grandmother, will be cherished by you and help to ease the pain. We are truly blessed to have had Pat in our lives....... Rest in peace Pat.
Bill & Family Pat was a marvelous lady ~Lee/Elizabeth Beam
Patricia was the best mother-in-law in the world. Caring, funny, intelligent and always full of love, she is an example for all of us. We had so much fun altogether over the last years and this is how I will remember her. Bill, Billy, my love Jeff, Emma, Cam, Diane, to all her brothers and sisters and friends, my sincere condeleance. You know I had to come back to Montreal to take care of soon to arrive Eleonore Patricia Bergeron-Waye. But my heart is with each and everyone of you. Patricia will continue to live in our hearts and in our memories. Anne-Marie
Dear Bill, & Family, I not only had the pleasure of working with Pat and came to love the compassionate, friendly person she was, but Urbano is also Bill's coffee shop buddy, so this has hit us twice as hard. (Pat and I shared many jokes about the coffee shop buddies and I will miss those jokes Pat) What an inspiration Pat has been to us all, to LIVE, LAUGH, LOVE life to it's fullest. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Bill and family at this most sad time in your life. God Bless, and Rest in Peace Pat. Teresa & Urbano
Pat was a truly magnificent human being. I am so blessed to have known her. I don't know where this quote is from, I will always think of Pat when I see it.... " The best exercise of the human heart is reaching down and picking someone else up." Maria Heggtveit
Dear Jeff, We send our sincerest condolences you and your family. Your Mom was a Mom to all she met and we all loved her for it! We are thinking of you. Kerry and family
Uncle Bill, Jeff & Anne-Marie, Billy & family: sincere condolences from our family here in Montreal. Its been quite a few years since I have seen Aunt Pat but I will always remember her as a warm and caring person who was loved by all. Will be thinking about all of you during this sad time.
We did not know Pat for a long time but I know that she comforted many new moms as she tested their babies hearing. It was obvoius that Pat had a love for nursing and we appreciated her return to the Infant Hearing Program after her retirement. Our thoughts are with her family. May you be comforted by your memories.
LIVE, LOVE AND LAUGH is what your brother's motto is going to be even more in life, thanks to you sis. god speed Trish. Love Mike
Good bye my old friend Pat. Never once did I meet you in the halls that your smile and a short conversation didn't lift my heart for the remainder of the day. I'll never forget those times 30 years ago when I used to bring popcorn in to all the staff on the unit during your night shifts. You always teased me. Thank you for your beautiful heart, I'll remember you always. Judy
Dear Jeff and Family, We are thinking very much of you, of this struggle, and of what will in contrast, with the birth of your first child, be the happiest time in your life. Your mom has always been the kind we all would love to have (though perhaps we don't appreciate it when we are young) and I hope to have the kind of relationship with my kids that she managed with you as an adult. (Showing up at Call the Office for gigs is one such example!) ~Tammy, Peter, Jude and Ailsa
Mr Waye & family We just wanted to let you know how much we loved Pat. She was more than just a volunteer to us, she was a member of the team and a good friend. She always had a joke or smile that would make us laugh. She seemed to know best how to help us without being told what we needed - her own special ESP that came from years of helping others. She was so kind to our patients and showed great empathy and compassion. In all our minds she was our special angel and we believe that she is in heaven caring for us now. From the chemo nurses and clerical staff at LRCP
This note is for Pat's sister Marg. Marg, my brother told me today that my sister-in-law Marilyn Waters worked with Pat at St Joe's. I can remember Marilyn talking about Pat in connection with The Golden Girls. When your mother passed away recently I should have been in touch, so today I am sending you my sincere sympathy and prayers for strength at this very difficult time when you have lost another precious family member. When I read the other online condolences, I get an understanding of why she will be so sorely missed. Pat was an inspiration to so many. Your family circle has grown smaller. You will need to stand closer together now and support each other through the days ahead. Take care.
In the quiet stillness of the night, Trish and I shared laughter and tears. My visits over the last few days will always be remembered and the memories that we shared will never be forgotten. You were there for the birth of all of our children and we thank you. I gave you a necklace with these words engraved on the pendant. FAITH COURAGE STRENGTH HOPE You are an inspiration to us all. Even as you struggled, you were able to share a smile. Peace Be Yours. Love, Bob
One of our family has left us here at St. Joe's. I have known Pat for many years, worked along side her. Her compassion for her work, her kindness and humour always in the fore front, her radiant smile and contagious giggle always filled the air. Pat was very repectful to everyone she met, even when it would have been easier to not be. I never have heard a bad word about Pat, in fact, most people were in awe of her and envious of her love and zest of life. She was totally devoted to her family and cherrished each moment she had with them. She will be sorely missed, was such a brave lady and it was a great pleasure to have known her. I will miss her. Family, please be strong, as she would have wanted you to carry on, with all her memories and love that she had given to you, which was her greatest gift of all.
I am deeply saddened hearing of the passing of "Pat ". I cannot express how very sorry I am to hear such sad new of her passing. I know she would want each of her family and friends and collegues to continue to Love-Laugh-Live, as "Pat" showed all of us how it is done by doing so everyday ! She was a gift ,I am honoured to have had the great pleasure of knowing such a Beautiful and admired lady.Pat has left a legacy that will be passed on and cherished for generations. My deepest condolences go out to her Family, Friends and Collegues. "Patricia" will be sorely missed but always in our hearts and memories.
To Pat's family: Though I've only known Pat for a short time, I felt like I had known her years. She was someone you took a shine to the moment you meet her. You could warm up to her and she allowed you to do so. In June Pat and a group of gals were at my house and we snapped a fabulous picture and this is how I remember her. When someone you love becomes a memory. The memory becomes a treasure. Sincerely...
Dear Bill and family: Pat will be sorely missed. It was a pleasure to have known and worked with her. My thoughts are with you at this sad time.
Dear Bill and Family, It is with profound sadness that I read the e-mail of Pat's passing. She was one great person and will truly be missed by all who knew and admired her as a colleague,as a friend. From our Family to yours our condolences and prayers at this sad time . May you find peace and strength in your memories .
Bill, Biily, Jeff, and Family: The world has lost a wonderful person. She will be missed. We have all benifited by knowing Pat. She was and will remain a Friend Forever. Our Thoughts and Sympathy to All of You.
My heart is so sad to have lost a dear and wonderful friend. It has been my utmost privilege to call her friend. She truly was an angel on earth quietly touching every person she met with kindness, love and compassion. She loved her family beyond words but I don't have to tell you that, you already know and have felt that love. She gave unconditionally, loved unconditionally and lived life to the fullest. There is not one person who ever met Pat, didn't love her the minute they spoke to her. My heart goes to all the family and all her friends who loved her. Her obituary has been written beautiful and describes what a incredible person she was. She will be missed deeply. I give my deepest sympathy to you all.
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Our Deepest Sympathy to the Bill and the family on the loss of Trish (Wife and Mother). Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. Trish will be sorely missed. Please accept our Condolences. Rob, Jan, Sean and Erin and Al.
~ Robert and Janice Ferguson